I need help?

Question

Ok, my friend just said to come over and will like go to the mall or the movies and ten minutes later she says just come on over
i had to wait for my mom to get home ( im only a teen ) and she said I could but she wouldnt take me so i try to call her back but she doesnt anwser and i keep calling her and i tryed her house and her mom said she went to go hang out with her other friends and she just toatlly ditched me . . . shes nice and all but I want revenge !!!! This makes me really frickin mad so if you have anything to help me calm down and or get revenge then tell


-Mad Person

P.S. she is like my best friend and would never do this!!!!!

Answer 1

Dear Mad Person,
Revenge is not the answer. Karma will come back and bit you in the butt when you least expect it too. So please don't bring this on yourself. I understand you are mad. But while you are so busy being mad you are giving your power to your friend. If you don't believe me, think about this: here she is out having fun and not even thinking about you, and you are home fuming mad and can't get her out of your mind. Next time she calls you, just speak with her and ask her why she did that. If you are really good friends she should tell you. If you don't like her answer, dump her and find a new friend. You said that she was nice and all, honey this isn't the behavior of a nice person.
Good Luck and take back your power.

Answer 2

You shouldn't be as mad at your friend because it's not her fault you didn't communicate to your mom before telling her you would come over. You should have had a better plan. Can't you ride your bike there? You can't blame your friend for not waiting on you. Why should her night be ruined because you waited too long to call. Just talk to her tomorrow when you've cooled down and stopped throwing things and ask her why she didn't wait for you to call back. At least listen to her side of things before you blow up on her. Chill out. Best friends are hard to find. Be more understanding and grow up. If you are mad at your mom for not taking you then tell her you'll give her gas money next time or get a car. Or a job. Then you can be more independent. Otherwise, that's just life.

Answer 3

first of all get rid of your anger because you are hurt i think not angry. never get revenge. it solves nothing. forgive her and you will no longer be angry. and you will feel better. it is all about making you feel better. so forgive. only you benefit by forgiving her . she does not benefit. tell her how you feel. Maybe she thought you ditched her and she is all hurt. talk it out. everything will be OK.
if she does not want to talk. then why do you care. then she really is not a friend. and you don't need a person like that in your life.

Answer 4

Next time she invites you out tell her that you need to wait to get permission and if she can wait for you then great but don't go out with other people for that hurt your feelings I am sure your friend didn;t mean to ditch you and yeah I don't like to get ditched either it makes me mad but I talk to my friends and we resolve the issue and move on just talk to your friend and go from there

Answer 5

The best way to get her goat is the next time you see her. Smile at her and go on your own way. If she says something to you. Answer briefly then continue with what you are doing. Do this 3 times by then, she will be ready to apologize

Answer 6

if you were supposed to go to the mall she probably thought you would get there and find her don't just jump to the thought she ditched you you might be wrong and get mad at her when she was thinking of you.

Answer 7

but she just did
don't take revenge - it's not mature.
simply forgive her, and remain friendly - there may be a legitimate explaination. If there isn't, simply be more careful with her friendship. You can be cooler with her, but don't cut her off altogether.

Answer 8

if you have the same group of friend, don't bother having revenge cause it won't get you no where. you know what she are now, so in the future just be prepare.

Answer 9

relax and dont be mad, when u do get a hold of her just talk about it nicly and see what happend, dont make conclusions, just ask what happened and go from there, dont be so mad, everything will turn out ok

Answer 10

try to split this into a few sentences lol. but i get it, but i had to read it again. but anyways, for revenge do the same thing to her then lol. if it were me though i would ask about it