do any of you women regret.........?

Question

getting their tubes tied? i am just curious if you regret it or are completely happy about it?

Answer 1

i had mine done after the birth of my son. he was my seventh pregnancy but my third live birth. i have two girls and a boy. and after three c-sections, and a d&c, it was very dangerous for me to even have more children. i am comfortable with my decision, but i do get sad sometimes when i think that i wont be able to have any more children. but i have three absolutely gorgeous children so i am very happy.

Answer 2

I myself and pretty OK with it. I just did it 2 months ago after the birth of my daughter. I also have 3 boys. So it was a good time for me to do it. My only regret is that it was a little emotionally hard for me to think that my ability to have kids were taken away. Yet at the same time, I have 4 beautiful children. So in the end it was a good decision. I can now start the next phase in my like. Just be sure that you are emotionally ready to do it, and you'll be fine.

Answer 3

I do to some degree. I regret it because of the reason I had it done, because I had little to no help from my husband, and instead I had to take care of him and our other child. The second pregnancy for me was a little more difficult than the first. I also had to work and clean up after everyone. I also got them tied because birth control doesn't work for me ( got pregnant on two different types ). My husband had a vasectomy, but it didn't work. So a tubal was our only option.

Answer 4

I am still intact, I chose to keep my options open. My late husband was "fixed". I knew I would NEVER in a million year's have another child with him since the marriage had some serious issues. I left my options open in case I found myself in a relationship with a man that had no children or we decided to have a child together to complete the family unit. My man now is also "fixed" & I am okay with this. I have 4 son's from ages 5-21 & my man has 2 daughters ages 17 & 23. Now, I am 36 & do realize my biological time clock is ticking and just hope I don't end up with the desire to have another child to complete our family unit. Besides, it would cost thousands to have him reversed, unless we adopted which would also cost a lot. It would be kinda kewl for him to have a son named after him though. Hmmmmmm. ;-)

Answer 5

After 4 children and 25 years later, no regrets and am very happy with the decision.

Answer 6

I regret it so much.I would love to have a baby with my current boyfriend (we are getting married)he has never had any children.I'm going to have the reversal done but its going to take a while for us to save up the money for the surgery.Sometimes I cry and imagine we will never have a child together.As much as he tells me its not important that we have a child together I know its a lie.I pray to God that he lets me get the money for the surgery and that it is successful.

Answer 7

I am completely content in my decision. For us, it was a medical decision. I just had my son 3 months ago and it was an extremely difficult pregnancy with lots of complications. We weighed the risks and decided that we were not going to tempt fate and risk my life or that of the baby's so we opted on a tubal when I ended up having an emergency c-section.

Answer 8

I had a tubal 17 years ago and never regretted it for one minute! 10 years ago I had to have a hyterectomy and I love, LOVE not having periods anymore! I highly recommend anything that eliminates the need for birth control or monthly visits from "Aunt Flo". LOL!

Answer 9

yes sometimes i do i have 6 children and i miss the new baby smell my kids are 14/ 12/11/9/6 and4 so yes i regret doing it but some are happy

Answer 10

My daughter regretted it. She got pregnant 6 years after the fact.