we have been married a long time, and I am not very well endowled, so the thought of this really turns me on.
2006-09-22 11:23:48 · 11 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, why not?? Fantasy can actually be fun BUT, NEVER, EVER act out this fantasy or any other that involves another person. That WILL cause BIGGER issues than you will want!!! Have funnnnn!!!!!
2006-09-22 11:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by maryannmccarthy2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you prepared to hear her say that she would be interested in this?
Are you prepared to have her pressure you to make this fantasy come true? Have you figured out whether you will be making the "stud selection", or will she?
Do you trust your wife, and your relationship, enough to be confident that she can be ravaged by some hot young stallion and still remain with you?
All of these questions need to be answered before you make the choice to tell your wife about this fantasy.
Also, be prepared for her to be offended. Depending on how she was raised, she may well be horrified by the idea of extramarital sex, even with your permission, and more so by the idea that you *want* this to happen. Which is very likely to spiral into "Are you trying to fix me up with another man so that you can justify hooking up with another woman?!"
This may well be the shot of adrenaline your sex life needs to become hot again. Or it could be the 10-ton anvil that crushes the camel flat. If you decide to tell her, be prepared to talk a LOT, about a LOT of things.
2006-09-22 11:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you say your married a long time, soo you should know if your wife is happy in bed, you say your so endowled & that the thoughts of her been with a young stud will turn you on? What about her? Does she have any say in this? Did she say she has complaints or what? If she didn't dont say nothing & be happy she stayed with you for sooo long without any complaints! (that's if that's the case!! )
2006-09-22 11:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an insecure issue to me, just because you are not well endowed doesn't mean you can't satisfy your wife, and you telling her that its your fantasy for her to be with another man is opening up Pandora's box. Just ask your wife what turns her on, what will satisfy her, and you both can have each other as fantasies it will be better than having another man in your bed.
2006-09-22 11:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you already have to answer to that. You need to consider how your wife may react and whether you're able to cope with it.
But the underlying issue seems to be lack of confidence on your part. Not being "very well endowled" - is that what she says or what you've labelled yourself? Her fantasy might be the same, only that that 'hot stud' is you.
2006-09-22 11:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it sounds like you're the only one who has an issue with the size of your willie. There are a lot of toys out there have fun experimenting w/them!
2006-09-22 11:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude are you trippin?
If you arent packing enough go get a BIG TOY for her and leave it that...... she knew what she was getting when she said I DO
2006-09-22 11:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your wife better than me, so you decide
2006-09-22 11:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, don't forget to tell her that you are sick in the mind!
2006-09-22 12:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,she might like it!
2006-09-22 11:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋