i am trying to get pregnant can some one try to help me with my question?

Question

i am 21 but i want to get pregnant i have been trying for a year and a half but i havent gotten pregant yet. we do it almost every other day but nothing yet. do i need to see a doctor but i am afraid they might say that i am to young or what can i try to do??

he is the only one in my life and we have used condoms in the beggining but i never used the path or pills or n e thing like that in my whole life, just condoms but stoped a year and a half ago.

just to anwer the first idiot that answered my question u dont know my life, i have helped my mom raise 5 kids and u cannot judge some one by the age, people have said that i act matture for my age i might be 21 but i work for my money and i am happyly married now.. so please safe us all from your comments and hope that u know how to raise your own kids thats if u have n e. thanks a lot ..for your stupid answer..

Answer 1

If you have been trying for a year and a half with no success you need to see a doctor. It could be something quite simple with an easy fix. Your doctor will not tell you that you are too young. As long as you are married and have been trying for over a year, a fertility specialist will see you. You need to make an appointment soon because it can take up to 3 months to get an appointment.

Infertility can be scaring. For me, knowing what was wrong made all of the difference emotionally. Good Luck.

Answer 2

If u are financially and emotionally ready 2 have a baby then it doesn't matter if u are 21.. I am 21 and I have a 10mth old and happily married. So good luck wit er'thing. If I were u I wouldn't stress it so much. A lot of stress could cause u not 2 be able 2 get prego. U should jus let things flow, and it will happen when u least expect it!! Good luck 2 u and ur hubby!!!

Answer 3

I dont think you are to young if you are both happy and can provide a good home then that is what it is all about! As for your problem, You could try buying an ovulating kit from tesco,asda or a chemist this may help if you have no joy after a while with this then speak to your doctor . When my sister had her first child it took her over a year to conceive sometimes its just the way it is. Good luck to you and may you stay positive!!

Answer 4

Dont listen to dumb people that give u bad comments if u want to have a baby go head and do it people shouldnt really get involves in ur life, im pregnant and Im 18 years old I dont care what people say and I would have as many kids as I want. I mean Its my life and Im not going to ask them for any money or any thing like that. Live ur life now that ur young alot of women regret not having a baby when they were young. They try to concieve when they are to old and it doenst work. Live life to the fullest.

Answer 5

21 is young, but make sure you are financial ready for all that comes with a baby first. They are expensive!

But besides that I would go to ferilityfriend.com and register and try the charting your cycles for a few months. Using your basal body temp. so then you have an idea of when you ovulate. Other than that make sure you are taking vitamins with at least 1mg of Folic acid and go online and check out other websites on trying to conceive.

Get all the information and facts you can so you can have the best odds for getting pregnant. I have had problems and tried. I know the pain. :-(

Answer 6

First of all my mom married when she was 19 and had me at 21. Age means nothing it's how mature you are. I would suggest you both go to the doctor just to check yourself out. And noone has the right to say you are too young. Good luck.

Answer 7

Are your cycles regular? You may need to be tested for PCOS or infertility. He may also need to get checked.

Go see a doctor and discuss your problems. They will help. No doctor is going to tell a 21 year old that you are too young. I had my first at 21 and had more support than ever.

Good luck.!

Answer 8

Your best off just talking to your doctor. I've heard that the last week befor your period (or two weeks) is when you are the most fertile. The pre ejaculation has the strongest sperm and the highest consentrate of sperm, then the final ejaculation. Your doctor can tell you more about it and give you some tips for both you and your husband.

I really wish you all the best of luck.

Answer 9

You are doing it too often and you are reducing his sperm count. Do not douche either. Relax and quit trying so hard. Wait until your next menstrual period. on a calender count the day you start your period as day one when you reach day 10 start having sex through day 16. The old rule was 10 to 14 (after the start of menstrual) days you should be ovulating. no smoking no drinking lots of vitamin and eat healthy. Relax. If you feel a Dr will help by all means go see one.

Answer 10

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.