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Ok I know marriage is a bond between two people who love and care for each other, but can't you have that same bond and love with out marriage. I just want to know the exact meaning of marriage and if it can be the same with out being married.

What does marriage mean to you?

2006-09-22 11:10:36 · 11 answers · asked by medevilqueen 4 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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First of all, we need marriage because God says we should be married. Marriage is not only for the benefit of the couple, but it is also for the children. When a husband and wife are bound by a public promise to stay faithful to each other, to remain dedicated to one another even through sickness and poverty, the marriage bond is a much stronger one, and this is vitally important because marriage is the foundation of society. If a man and woman live together without the benefit of marriage, they are saying that God is not correct and that marriage is not necessary. If they have children out of wedlock they are risking the children's moral and emotional health since the children will learn that convenience and self-serving ideals are more important than integrity. They will learn that personal preference is more valuable than the welfare of another. They will learn that selfishness is the model to live by since the sacrifice of commitment to one person has not been made. In additions, children need security and instruction. Marriage helps to secure the family bond thereby providing a more secure environment for the children to grow up in so that they might properly learn morality and integrity as they enter into society as adults. After all, those parents who do not value marriage tend to not value commitment and children should not be raised where the parents are not committed to each other. Furthermore, marriage with its promise of fidelity, helps to ensure health through the prevention of venereal diseases. Marriage helps to ensure the very sanctity of the spouse to spouse relationship since marriage is a public statement of exclusive dedication. This helps to have trust in the relationship where a marriageless, living-together relationship can have no true trust since they are together out of convenience. If it becomes inconvenient, then they can easily break up -- children or no children. Marriage is not just a piece of paper. It is a promise to live together faithfully, till death, through thick and thin, sickness and health and it is a benefit to the children who are raised in it. Marriage is a blessing from God.

2006-09-22 11:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by JustAThought 2 · 0 0

Definition of marriage:
1 a (1) : the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law (2) : the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage b : the mutual relation of married persons : WEDLOCK c : the institution whereby individuals are joined in a marriage
2 : an act of marrying or the rite by which the married status is effected; especially : the wedding ceremony and attendant festivities or formalities
3 : an intimate or close union

2006-09-22 11:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by metalgods 4 · 0 0

Marriage means that two people share a bond and love for each other and they want what is best for that person. For example look at Nick Lachey and Jessica Simpson's marriage. Nick didn't want Jessica to be happy. Jessica's career was starting to take off and while he was a no one. Before Jessica married Nick, she wasn't famous, but when the the Newlyweds show started to take place then Jessica started to be more famous then her husband. Nick wanted to be the famous one so things in the marriage turned to rocks. can't disagree about anything so both partners can be happy.

2006-09-22 11:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes you can have a bond and a love for someone out of marriage. But marriage is the actual promise that you WILL love that person and "only" that person till death do they part. Unfortunately that doesn't always happen in a marriage.

2006-09-22 11:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dasja L 2 · 0 0

See, the problem with the "properly, a brother and sister residing co-dependently ought to celebrate with an analogous reward" ability that no 2 immediately human beings have *ever* abused the marriage gadget at the same time as they weren't in a romantic relationship. yet a sibling couple doing so ought to nonetheless be legally "married"; they does no longer then, in turn, be allowed to marry anybody they were extremely romantically attracted to with out dissolving that partnership, with all the criminal issues a divorce may reason. I advise, i think if a brother/sister pair (or brother/brother or sister/sister, were gay marriage criminal) had to enter right into a lifelong, non-romantic criminal partnership, confident, they could conceivably call for they be granted marriage rights. yet such partnerships must be really few and far between, as i imagine the social stigma of demanding you be allowed to marry your sister ought to probable suppress that team. A more advantageous pertinent question must be on a thanks to tackle the fashion of contributors in a wedding ceremony. If marriage is spread out from the position that's now, then there is the question about even if polyamorous unions must be legally known. And if we then higher marriage to let, say, 4 individuals, then what about polygamists who sense socially ostracized because they have a 5-way relationship? Polygamists and brothers desirous to marry their sisters, even with the indisputable fact that, represent a tiny, tiny fraction of yank society. Homosexuals, at the same time as nonetheless a minority, volume far more advantageous. establishing up marriage to same-sex couples, i trust, is a fashion to grant those romantic pairings an analogous criminal rights that are at the moment loved through similar partnerships, at the same time as minimizing the replace to the most suitable gadget. confident, the "slippery slope" argument can nonetheless be utilized, yet merely because establishing up marriage to homosexuals may open up a higher can of worms would not advise it truly is not an outstanding and correct aspect to do.

2016-11-23 15:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think that marriage is really just basically announcing publicly that you are going to be with somebody for the rest of your life and if you get married in a church it has alot to do with like getting married before God and allowing him to be a part of your life as husband and wife and teaching your children that way too...marriage is just the most accepted and common thing to do but if you don't want to get married i don't think you are any different...there is just less risk that way...also in certain states it is the law that if you live together for like 7 years you are considered married by the state...it is called common marriage or somethin like that...

2006-09-22 11:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 4 · 0 0

marriage is just a legal term of a true relationship between a man and a women who has set to live the rest of there lives together no matter what god throws at them ,good or bad thick or thin they vowed to share one entire life time together as one.the marriage is the contract as a ceremonies the love life is the same

2006-09-22 11:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Aldoit 2 · 0 0

for my experience, marriage is a commitment between two persons, is a decision to love your partner no matter what....

for me you don't have to be married to have this kind of commitment with someone, i mean, the only difference is just a piece of paper that says that legaly you are attached, but other than that, you can still live a marriage without the paper...

2006-09-22 11:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

marriage is a bon oh wait you said that already.
Your relationship might be the same although some legal things might be different, but when youre truly "married" to your spouse (male/female, not this gay crap) the feelings are different, their tighter, theres more of an actual oneness

2006-09-22 15:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Yme * in PA 1 · 0 0

marriage is having vow that you will love our spouse regardless of any circumstances 'til death.

2006-09-22 11:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0 0

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