They've been equaly wrong
2006-09-22 11:08:27 · 16 answers · asked by BABOY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-09-22 11:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally, you were wrong by a mile. But if you said that it was your fiance, your mom will eventually understand.
I would have just told the mom that she was being childish and not considerate enough to the fiance. I then tell the fiance she needs to stop fighting with the mom, grow up and sort their differences liked civilsed people.
Sit with them talk things through one at a time, alternating between both sides so there is understanding. Work out solutions, stick with the solutions and pray they won't make silly arguments again.
2006-09-22 11:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have truly been equally wrong then you don;'t need to be taking anyones part in the argument...you need to find a way to get them both together and tell them that you do not wish to take sides, that you love them both and that it hurts you if they argue. Sometimes, you just have to step in and take control cos if you don;t you will end up losing one of them....do you really want to choose between your mom and your fiance...could you choose? So yeah it is wrong to take sides against anyone if they have both been equally wrong and its wrong if either of them EXPECTS you to as well.
2006-09-22 22:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by widow_purple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, next time word the question correctly. I think you meant is it wrong for you to take your fiance's side in an argument between her and her mother? If that's what you meant, unless you are asked to verbally choose sides, you may agree with her mother, but remain objective and supportive of your fiance' without openly choosing sides.
2006-09-22 11:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong, don't get mixed up in their arguments, as much as you would like to! Let them argue it out, just walk away, go outside! Or go for a drive, if they are arguing outside!
2006-09-22 11:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about being caught between a rock and a hard place!! No matter what you do, you're screwed.
Could you take NEITHER side, and instead help them both to compromise?
2006-09-22 11:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are equally wrong dont take sides just try 2 get both of them 2 see this and call a truce
2006-09-22 11:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by steveo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiance should respect her elders. Both adults should be discussing issues not arguing...
2006-09-22 14:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by empressandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to write correct English and ask the question again.
2006-09-22 11:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your fiance to **** off. Your mother is the best treasure you have. unless of course you enjoy two women fighting over you.
2006-09-22 12:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by olayinka o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should speek to ur fiance after the argument has taken place altho it is hard, its the right thing to do...although it may be too l8 nw
2006-09-22 11:10:41 · answer #11 · answered by rooney92000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋