ok well there's this guy and we'v liked each other for 3 years
and on sep 2 he asked me out
i said yes
at first he seemed really happy about it and wanted EVERYONE to kno
then it wuz like a ok w/e cool i have a gf type thing
but then i started noticing some stuff between him and his ex gf and ppl started spreadin rumors that he wuz cheating on me and this girl told me that he told his ex he wuz gonna break up with me and he stopped being around me as often and he didnt seem to like me as much anymore so i kinnda freaked.and exactly one week ago..on friday..i broke up with him and he didnt ask for a reason so i didnt give him one and ever since then he's been avoiding me.if he ever sees me in the hallwayz he turns his head and pretends like he doesnt notice
and sometimes he gives me a mad/sad/depresedish look then looks away. i wanna talk to him but itz hard. my friend told me that i broke his heart
and my other friend told me that he told her that he's still in love with me.
2006-09-22 11:02:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all don't ever let anyone come in between your relationship! All people including your friends are outsiders looking in. Don't ever go by he say, she say. If you love or are in love you communicate, F*ck what anyone else says or thinks. You might be able to get him back but just know that he will always remember the things of the past. Its easy to forgive and hard to forget. If that's the guy you want go after him but remember to start fresh.
2006-09-22 11:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by ImBossy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter telling him what's been going on and ask him if he could shed some light on the subject... First thing you should do in the letter is apologize for listening to everyone else and not asking him first. Violates trust in a relationship when you doubt him. A relationship is about trust, honesty and compassion. It requires two people to communicate openly and freely...with understanding. No matter what the outcome, understand that this guy may be just as confused as you and is now a little embarrassed to be around you for having been dumped. Keep the confrontations private. Public outbreaks can be cruel and extremely harmful to both involved.
2006-09-22 18:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by chance_ghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him/call him, and tell him what you heard about him before. Ask him if it's true at all. If not, apologize and get back together.
Good luck!
2006-09-22 18:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by c90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am SO glad to be married and not having to deal with this craziness any more! Gooood luck missy.
2006-09-22 18:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋