I love my wife but haven't showed it so how do i get her back sexually. She just isn't in the mood ever she is always mad at me for the things i do or forget.
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2006-09-22 10:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by waldronbelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope for your sake, it is not too late. Start communicating with her and asked her how u can make it up to her. Let her talk and listen carefully to what she has to say. After all is said and done, DO NOT repeat the same mistakes again. Women just want to be given attention, to be appreciated, wanted and needed and if u are not showing her any of these things, she might end up leaving u someday.
2006-09-22 11:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it so hard to think of things to make it easier for her? Be nice? Do the dishes for her, give her a break, help out around the house, I guarnatee that will help! Not only does it show her that you care enough to make things easier for her, but she will aslo be less tired. Also, have you never watched a movie in you life? Take some hints! (and i'm not talking about pornos) Go rent some 'girlie' movies, and take notes! Run her a nice bath, and wash her, light some candles, give her a massage. Make the night all about her, and not you! Plan a night out, doing somehting SHE would like, ask her about her day and her feelings, let her know that you are wanting to work things out and are very interested in her feelings and how SHE thinks you can improve. Do not make excuses or argue with her! The BIGGEST peace of advice i can give you is this, listen closely!!!!, this is not a one time fix all deal! you can not do just one nice act, and then go back to being like you were before and expect everything to be fine! That is not how it works! A good peace of advice for all men out there......IT IS HARDER TO KEEP A WIFE THAN IT IS TO GET A WIFE!!! Show her daily that you care, and YES the little things do matter!!! Pick her up one of those roses at the gas station while you are paying for your gas, open the doors for her, clean off the table after dinner, use dry erase markers to right little love notes on the mirror in your bathroom, touch her gently every time you pass her in the hallway, there are a hundred differnt easy ways that you can show her you care, YOU just have to put out the effort. Good luck, and I hope you are sincere in showing your wife that you love her, remeber true love is a commitment, not a feeling, you must wake up everyday saying "i will make this day the best day of our marraige".
2006-09-22 11:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in a committed relationship, you need to always respect them, care for them and most importantly love them. Now days, people just don't bother to think about the consequences. I can't say that you won't get her back but, the chances are very slim. A woman is going to stay with a man until she has had enough. For you this could be today, tomorrow or it could be two months from the time you started to lie and disrespect her. You reap what you sow. So, if you did all these wrong things to her, expect them to happen to you. I will pray for you.
2006-09-22 11:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Wifey K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its me again. try gooing back to the feelings that got you guys together. try holding hands in public again. I'm sure that has fizzled out since you got married or even before that. zjust give her a kiss every now and again just because. you dont need a reason to be nice or flirt. just do it because you love her. My husband and I always call each other during lunch breaks just to sayI love you. and if either of us answer the phone, we leave a long winded message just explaining how and why we fell in love to begin with. give it a try. let me know.
2006-09-25 09:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by tsd574 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes after men hurt their wives there is no going back, but you can move forward you need to talk to her and really listen to her feelings, maybe even talk to a pro might help. But in the end if you don't talk to each other and listen with your hearts there will be no getting her back, good luck
2006-09-22 11:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hunny all i can tell you is too be nicer to her. respect her. compliment her. clean the house for her. rub her feet. buy her sweet stuff and surprise her. take her out to dinner. go to a lake. something. start to change ... and i promise you she will too. and it seems thats all you want out of her. show her that you truely care and she will want to please you whether it sexually or not. Good Luck and seriously try some of the things i have listed. i personaly love them =)
2006-09-22 11:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start over....like you are first dating. Being nice a few times doesn't warrant having sex. You have to build up to the level you once were. Good luck.
2006-09-22 11:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u tried asking her? You need to start doing what she asks and expects....if u can't then the 2 of you should go for counseling. If u still can't do what it takes, then you need to consider either no sex or no relationship!
2006-09-22 11:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jus Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get her back emotionally first. if you do that, sex will follow.
2006-09-22 11:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by vanillaspice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice for awhile, then get great makeup sex
2006-09-22 11:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by chuckleburry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋