Guys are most definitely visual creatures and it goes way beyond the need to have sex. Watch a couple of guys try to ex plain a physical problem to each other,inevitably somebody is going to pull out a pencil and draw a picture or if they're playing football and want to explain a pass pattern , the QB using his finger , will draw it out on the palm of his hand and all the guys will get it.
Madison Ave markets to guys visually, that tells you a lot about us
All guys are different as far as what visual sexual cues turn them on
I like women that come to bed wearing one of my tee shirts , nothing under it, and have natural breasts and pubes
Other guys like your husband are not completely turned on by that look and would prefer to have a little more formality in the bedroom.
However there is a HUGE difference between not being completely turned on and being TURNED OFF. Something else is turning him off.
Usually when guys get turned off by women it's because of a significant increase in body mass or you've become his mother which is the ultimate turn off.
If you haven't done either talk to him about it- it may have nothing to do with you
2006-09-22 11:33:37
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answered by Anonymous
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No doubt men are visual creatures. Now your husband may be taking this to the extreme. It's a little unrealistic to expect your wife to be all done up to just go to bed.
I like a thong as much as the next guy but that isn't the deal maker as far as if we are going to have sex that night or not.
I wouldnt say he isnt attracted to you, I guess he s just looking for some of the "extras" to get things jump started. Cut him off for a little while and I bet he'll be all over you regardless of what you are wearing or what state your makeup or hair are in
2006-09-22 18:01:48
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answered by RedEye 3
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Yes. We are turned on more with the visual aspect of women. Women in turn, are turned on with words and promises of security.
This is why porn sells much more for men than women. We like to look when we see an attractive female. That's just the way we operate. No changing this.
As for your husband, this sounds more like an excuse from his part. Unless you're dressing up like a homeless person, he should have no excuse. Do you try to initiate foreplay with him? That usually means a lot with a guy when the women shows interest with foreplay.
2006-09-22 17:58:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, men are more visually stimulated than women. However, your husband was a little too callous by saying that to u. U can't look your best all the time, especially if u just got out of bed or if you're sick. So, he's basically saying to u that he won't have sex w/ u unless you're all dolled up? Your physical appearance shouldn't be the only one turning him on. It should be who u are as a person too.
2006-09-22 17:56:43
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answered by cheetah7 6
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I think they are visual but i think they really fall for people who make them feel a certain way- like if they get alot of attention or affection they seem to gravitate to that person. They are very visual because they stare at any thing half dressed or skanky.
2006-09-22 18:00:22
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answered by tonyacrazylipstick 2
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Men are visual, but I don't think not doing your hair or makeup for one night is enough to turn a man off who supposedly loves you--I am sorry to say, but he has problems.
2006-09-22 19:37:39
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answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4
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First question men are very visual that's how they responsed to anything. It's in there nature, I believe your husband is just turned on when you are dressed a certain way, I am not say you are not attractive, but that's what turns him on. My husband its thong underwear and high shoes, but I know he is attractive me, but I know that's what turns him on.
2006-09-22 18:00:07
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answered by Brezzy 3
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They are definatily visual and so are we....don't you like a nice looking guy who is buff and in shape....however, men are even more so I think.
As far as him denying you b/c you are not looking a certain way, well that's not love.
2006-09-22 17:55:46
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answered by Jus Me 1
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I think he loves it when you get all dolled up. Take it as a compliment not a cut. He wants you to have those things on to be the most beautiful that you are.
2006-09-22 17:55:16
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answered by Anonymous
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We are truly visual creatures unless we are blind then we would be more tactile as well. ;=] But generally men are visual and tactile, yes? ;=]
2006-09-22 17:52:44
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answered by pc93 2
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