met t his special lady 4 years ago been together til this past may...we took a break because she is soooo jealous and doesnt trust me..when honestly i havent givin her any reason to TRUTHFULLY not she doesnt like my friendliness im an extreme extrovert while she's the opposite..i will talk to people while crosssing the street she will lock her doors when hse goes downtown..should we part ways or gut it out?
2006-09-22 10:48:58 · 12 answers · asked by homsta21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like she may have self esteam issues if she is jealous of you & making accusations. She sees your friendliness as flirting & wanting attention where she doesn't like attention. I am thinking that it'll be too much work for you & you should find someone that enjoys your personality, it's obvious that you will not have trouble meeting anyone.
2006-09-22 10:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by pattysez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs is a lot of time to have invested in a relationship and this just now is a questionable deal breaker??? If it's something u can live with have you tried counseling? she may have some issues she needs to work on b/c of this that will come out in counseling. If you really value your relationship you should try counseling before bailing. What do u have to loose excepr deception from not being honest to your self and her.
2006-09-22 11:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jus Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In gutting out, you gut your life!! and by the way, the next one could be even more unpredictable, they are all the same, excluding the exceptional cases, who were blessed by High Up, all over the world they will be the same, I have witnesses to prove it. Once they are onto ya, they are onto ya, of course, to part is difficult, but then you will be parting for another "who the heck is THIS". ha.ha.ha.ha. sorry, I laughed, but the worldwide phenomena will not stop till eternity.
2006-09-22 11:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by nizam h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all going to be up to u and how willing u are to put up with her insecurities. Keep in mind that she has issues u can't fix, no matter how much reassurance u give her. These are things she needs to work on herself. So, are u up for the task of accepting her the way she is?
2006-09-22 10:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow your heart but there seems to be some baggage from her past if you havent give her a reason not to trust you but if you care about her at all instead of just walking away try to work it out together and find out why she is so insecure
2006-09-22 11:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by dkay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she don't trust you and the two of you are that much different then stay away from her. she sounds a bit crazy to me! Definitely not the person for you.
2006-09-22 11:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stick with her, you're liable to end up with her trying to change you into being somebody that you're not... your outgoing-friendliness is a quality that doesn't need to be smothered out, just because she can't deal with it... let her find someone who's a hermit.
2006-09-22 10:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF IS SHE JEALOUS BECAUSE YOU HAVE HURT HER BEFORE OR MAY BE SOME ONE ELSE DID. SHE HAS SOME EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE SHE NEEDS TO DEAL WITH. IF YOU LOVE HER YOU CAN WORK IT OUT TOGETHER. IF NOT MOVE ON.
2006-09-22 11:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by FRANCES C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now, if you stay she will turn into a nutcase whacko and probably kill you over her perceived jealousies.
2006-09-22 10:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by utahraptor88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No trust, no relationship
2006-09-22 10:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋