I think this is gross and don't want to do this. He said that I should want to please him and if I don't do this our marrage will end. I have tried and just can't do it again. What should I do. I have children and don't want to mess things up for them.
2006-09-22 10:46:47 · 24 answers · asked by sweetjennmill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What, he wants you to stick something up his butt?
Do it
2006-09-22 10:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally don't find anything wrong with anal sex, infact i enjoy it from time to time! On the other hand, if any person told me that they would divorce me simply because I wouldn't do something sexaul (that i was not comfortable doing) with them, then i would tell them to get the **** out!! That is so WRONG of him to do that. If your asshole is more important to him than his marriage than why the hell are you still with the jerk! This can't be the first clue that you've had that he's a creep?! Normal people do not reason like that, he sounds like a completely selfish person, who would tear up a happy stable home for his children over a palce to stick his teenie-weenie!!
2006-09-22 11:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never do something that makes you uncomfortable. You tried it, you didn' t like it ... that's it.
Your husband is showing a great lack of respect and love for you by giving you this ultimatum....
Sounds like there are bigger problems that need to be worked on than whether you do anal.
Your children will be fine.....if you can't make this marriage work for BOTH of you...then it's time to either seek counseling or divorce.
Good Luck.
2006-09-22 10:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is if this guy is going to divorce you over anal sex then get divorced because he does not love you. Hes probably been looking at anal sex porn and now he wants to have sex with you in that way. You could put some chocolate sauce on your *** and then consend to anal sex I bet he wont ask again.
2006-09-22 11:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local sex shop and buy him a nice sized toy for his own anus. After he becomes comfortable with having a toy in his anus, oh say 5 or 6 times, for say 10 minutes, at a time, and give it to him good, then go back to that sex shop and buy yourself some anal eaze, and try and relax, because if he is willing to go through all that because he really wants you to do it, maybe it would be worth it. But then again, if he goes through all that just to get you to do that, Maybe you should file for divorce.
2006-09-22 12:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is unfair for him to ask you to do something that you are uncomfortable with. If he cannot accept the fact that you are not comfortable giving him anal sex and he wants to leave you over something that trivial, then let him go. If he truly loved you, he would not make that a deciding factor in ending your marriage.
2006-09-22 10:53:18 · answer #6 · answered by forever charmed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do something that makes you uncomfortable, but if you only tried once and do want to try again, you need to talk to your husband he needs to know that you need to be at ease, first he needs to full fill you first and let the romantic side come out when you are relaxed and wanting to play around is the best time, alot of floor play and losts of lube. good luck
2006-09-22 11:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like it. Most do not. If you decide to give it a try, use lots of lube. Also, push like your taking a dump as he enters. This will relax those muscles and make it less painful for you.
2006-09-22 10:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this clown is going to leave you for something that un-important then you probably dont want that kind of person around your kids anyway.
I mean come on, who throws away a marriage WITH KIDS just because you want let him have your azz?
2006-09-22 11:06:46 · answer #9 · answered by RedEye 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tried to bring home some gay!!!!!
this would satisfy him a lot.. promise!!!
SERIOUSLY
your husband wanted to try things that he think could bring a lot of enjoyment but when it comes to sex both must satisfy..
so if that the only reason to end your marriage well he's a stupid, pool, moron person!!!
2006-09-22 12:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by aerosemith_nirayvana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband sounds lke a bit of a jerk, he's forcing u to do things for him which i gather u dont really wanna do, then he threatens u by saying if u dont do it the marriage will end.??!! thats bullocks, marriage isn't about sex, it's about love, and if he loved u he would respect your opinion on this matter, u have a stern talk with him, he can't just threaten you like that!
2006-09-22 10:50:40 · answer #11 · answered by Rebecca H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋