i have a long distance relationship with a girl, from across the country. we aren't techically together but probably will be once i finish school and one of us moves so we can be together. she has a guy friend, who is 20 yrs older than her and use to be her boss. he is married but has made it very clear to my girl that he has feelings for her. i want to tell her not to see him anymore but she says he is a cool guy and they are just friends. but a cool guy? married with kids and telling a girl twice your age you want to kiss her? am i out of line to tell her not to see him anymore?
i am actually interested in getting opinions on whether it is just me who thinks it is totally sleazy to be married with kids and declaring your love for someone... let alone someone half
2006-09-22 10:45:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
half you age.
2006-09-22 10:45:19 · update #1
I've been in a few relationships and i know a loose relation is the best it would be okay for her to hang with him if you could keep an eye on him. So don't tell her not to be his friend, but tell her to be careful and watch her back. I let my girl hug who ever she wants but so long as there's no kissing on the lips I don't care.
2006-09-22 10:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by naruto1_sasuke2_sakura3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sleazy.......I agree but I don't know what to tell you to tell her. I would start with calmly and sincerely telling her how you feel though.
2006-09-22 10:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by PaganPoetess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋