please tell me why. my sister divorced last month. her husband had cheated on her .she couldnt stay and divorced . after that she had many problems spritual and FINANTIAL.why it had happened to her.whose fault is this?fate ?God?herself?her husband?
why she should face such difficulties in her life.why her romance , her dreams end like this? was she deserved it?I see many more people who are not worthy of the prosperity ther have but they DO have it.my sister was worse than them? who decided such a destiney for her?it cant be harself. she loved her life she still loved her husband but please please tell me why? why ?why?
who is responsible for her broken heart?who is responsible for her tears?I cant underetand why. please answer me if you REALLY want to answer. Im toooooooooo upset. please tell me please.
2006-09-22 10:42:15 · 11 answers · asked by sara sea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well shame on you if you tell her that these things are her fault and that God is punishing her. The husband cheated and she was within her right to leave him.
2006-09-22 10:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its called life, bad things happen to good people. In the eyes of God she is allowed to divorce because of the adulerty. She is ok in that area. It is really both her and her husbands fault I know that seems cold but, it takes two ppl to have a relationship and he cheated for some reason. Its her husbands fault for the actions but both there faults for the failed marriage. Its not about destiney things just happend that way sometimes. Shes better off without him because she does not deserve to be treated that way. In time she will move on and find a new love and be happy about her decision to divorce.
2006-09-22 11:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT her fault. These types of things happen to almost everyone. Life is full of problems. Some people are only good at hiding them so they appear like they have it all.
Her ex husband is the cause of her broken heart but she always has a choice to be happy. Remember that.
2006-09-22 10:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- her hubby was tempted to do wrong.
2- he made a choice.
3- he gave in to temptation, instead of following God's guidance.
4- he broke her heart, broke trust, broke the relationship, broke the love/respect she had for him.
5- he didn't seek forgiveness from her or make ammends.
6- he made her feel that he didn't care, didn't love her anymore.
7- she's only human & couldn't bare any more of the hurt/torment.
8- she decided to move on with her life, in a different direction.
9- she's picking up the pieces & starting over, & to climb that particular ladder, we generally start at the bottom (financially, emotionally).
10- it isn't easy, but she'll get thru it, someway, somehow.
11- she needs to let others be strong for her & to help her thru the hard times.
12- & God will help her thru, no doubt.
What it all boils down to is>>> choices.
2006-09-22 11:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma I really believe in Karma & what is meant to be will be.
She is supposed to go through this for a reason, why? No one knows, hind sight is 20/20 so even if you or she dwells on WHY? you'll just be wasting your time. Maybe it's a test...to see what she is made of & if she can pick herself up & dust herself off & carry on. No one's fault persay. Do you ever ask WHY when something good happens in life? Ponder that question & see what you come up with.
2006-09-22 10:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by pattysez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all fate...but remember it all happen to good one's.be optimistic after every sus set again the sun rises,n after the dark light comes...such a ways ur sis vll have gud time by the near future.and u shudnot be like this.be courageous n make her courageous.u enlighten her n engage her to some work she can do...slowly all vll be set right as the time goes on...
2006-09-22 11:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by sssvnr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WERE NOT ALWAYS AT FAULT FOR THE TRIALS WE GO THREW SOMETIMES GOD LETS US GO THREW THEM TO SEE HOW WE RESPOND ITS NOT THE TRAIL THAT IS IMPORTANT ITS THE WAY WE RESPONED YOUR SIS IS NOT AT FAULT FOR WHAT HER HUSBAND DID THAT WAS HIS FAULT GOD GIVES US FREE WILL !! AND MAYBE SHE JUST NEEDED SOME ONE TO HELP HER PASTT THIS POINT SO SHE CAN GET BACK ON TRACK W/ LIFE GET A JOB GET MONEY FROM HIM HE DOES OWE HER AND START OVER GO TO CHURCH AND MAKE A LIFE FOR HERSELF WITH OUT THAT JERK!
2006-09-22 10:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats done is done she needs to move on,god is not punishing anyone but in the end maybe she will find someone way better,god is doing her a favor.
2006-09-22 10:48:50 · answer #8 · answered by ///\oo/\\\ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST LEARN TO FORM A SENTENCE. ITS LIFE OK!!! BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE THERE IS NO ONE TO BLAME. HER HUSBAND IS A PIG AND WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND, HE WILL GET HIS. CALM DOWN AND BE THERE FOR HER. LIFE IS ABOUT CHANGES AND ITS HOW WE ROLE WITH IT IS HOW WE GET THROUGH
2006-09-22 10:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by patrick b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a book 'when bad things happen to good people.'
read it.
2006-09-22 10:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋