i mean... I dontthink of myself as ugly. i am shy around guys but not around my friends. Actually i am kinda crazy-just-having-fun around my friends. I like this shy guy. My friend danced with him at the dance and she said shedidn't really like him, he was just hot and they both didn't have anyone to brag about dancing with. At the dance all my friedn were telling me how cute they looked. Whatever. They know i like him. I think he knows i like him. he claims he doesn't like anyone or doesn't want to go out with anyone. I think he does though. He is SOOO hot! i like him so much!
HELP!
2006-09-22 10:23:38 · 16 answers · asked by <3 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
TRY TO OPEN UP YOUR PERSONALITY
SO PEOPLE CAN GET TO KNOW YOU
2006-09-22 10:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here's the thing...if he's a shy guy then even if he liked you he probably wouldn't approach you. If you're shy too it's going to be hard to hook up! I find nowadays that women are getting more aggressive & men much less so. Makes it hard for a shy girl to meet someone. My current boyfriend says I'm the first girl that he ever approached, that every other girlfriend he has had has asked him out. He's an amazing guy & I can't believe that I never would have met him if he hadn't made that first move. You could be missing out on meeting a lot of guys too shy to approach you who may admire you from a distance...maybe meet them half way. Smile, say hello & take it from there...
Good luck!
2006-09-22 17:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait,is your question why you don't have a bf or need help with this guy?
You sound like your in high school(like me),and I would just tell you:be yourself,have proper hygiene and not too much makeup,and stop worrying so much.I'm a junior,my friends have always told me i have good looks and great personality,but I never had a bf until now.I waited for the right guy and didn't worry too much and now im with a great guy....
so just wait,your man will come out sooner or later!
hope that helped...
2006-09-22 17:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start talking to him. I'm really shy too, and when I started to like the guy I sat behind, I started talking to him less and less. But once I finally told him he was al like well your cool, but I don't like you cuz your too shy. And he go tkinda mad @ me cuz I had stopped talking to him. So my advice is to be friends first, then once you are finally comfortable with him, you can ask him out! GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-09-22 17:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if ur still young then don't worry. but if u really want to then heres a fact. guys don't mature as quickly as girls. maybe he really does like u but feels that its wierd to date and go out. he's just not ready for a girlfriend, just hang out with him and let him know that u being his girlfriend is just as natural as being friends
2006-09-22 19:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by greenT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him. After the conversation ends, tell him how interesting he is and how much you enjoyed talking to him. Unless he's a complete loser, he'll make arrangements to meet.
2006-09-22 17:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Superstar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's so easy for a girl to get a guy. Just do a lil suin sexy and u got em.
2006-09-22 17:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by ProBLeM CHiLD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks but crap like this happens all the time.
Ah well, go for broke! If he won't put the moves on you, you should put the moves on him!
2006-09-22 17:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....never think ur not good enough i used to think that but its a lie....u just have to stick out to this guy....if u ever talk to him, look rite in his eyes and smile...it works. just do w/e u hafta to make him like you, except being some1 ur not
2006-09-22 17:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by LoLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing we say can ever make you likeable. Comb your hair, brush your teeth and quit belly aching about it.
2006-09-22 17:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by waxingtheturtle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over being shy and talk to him
2006-09-22 17:32:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋