my friends never invite me places anymore?

Question

I've had the same best friends since I was little and recently they always hang out together and only invite me when they have nothing else to do and when I plan something I always invite everyone and I have other friends but I'd rather hang out with my old friends just because I feel more comfortable around them so I just don't know what to do because its really hard to just stop talking to people that you've been friends with all your life

Answer 1

Probably because you are a high maintenance whiney butt.

Answer 2

Maybe your old friends are just going through a phase. But I would still hang out with them when they ask you and I would do stuff with my new friends too. Have they always invited you or has it been one of those relationships like i have with my friends. If we talk about it with you around - your invited. That's the rule with me and my friends. So do they tell you about what they are doing. Do they tell you what time, and where they are meeting? Maybe they are inviting you just not saying it out right. I'm not saying invite yourself but maybe next time they say something about doing something and tell you the time and place -- if they do that -- ask "Well are you inviting me?"

Answer 3

i no how u feel, i'm a student counseller and i have many people coming to me with the same problem. you need to talk to them about whats going on, maybe theres been a misunderstanding about something and they feel uncomfortable around u, no one would just suddenly stop hanging round with someone they have known for most of there life. somethings going on and u have to find out what instead of feeling like this, ask whats going on and how its making u feel all this.
it'll all resolve itself, good luck

Answer 4

maybe they think u are not wanting to hang around them anymore. U should at least let them know that u still give a damn about them and continue tohang with them regardless of the new friends u make

Answer 5

what is wrong with you?? can't you see?? i don't want to sound rude but i don't think they still consider you as a friend. maybe you should just hang out with the other people and when they ask why you don't hang out with them, tell them what you feel so they'd know, but if they don't ask, then i guess that's your sign and just move on.

Answer 6

But they're not going to remain your best friends for life. They will go and drift away and so will you. This is the precept of life. Go find friends that you're comfortable to be with and have fun !

Answer 7

WELL IT'S NORMAL FOR FRIENDS TO GROW APART,I KNOW IT MUST HURT, BUT YOU HAVE A SET OF NEW FRIENDS TOO IT'S OK TO GET INVOLVE WITH OTHER FOLKS,DON'T SELL YOURSELF SHORT IF YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND SOMEONE ELSE WOULD HONOR AN RESPECT THAT,DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF..STAY AS YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND AN GO OUT IN MINGLE WITH OTHERS,IT WILL BE OK.....GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Friends grow apart for many different reasons, i suggest spending more time with your new found friends, as you get older your life veiws dont always match your old friends.

Answer 9

It may be that time that where u might neet to move on and just make new friends. If your friends dont want to invite you anywhere, then dont even worry about them

Answer 10

People change, interests change. If they are your true friends they would not do this to you, unless like the person ^up there said, maybe your a pain in the butt.

Answer 11

Talk to them and find out why. Is it a scheduling conflict or something else? Just ask them.