Today My bf came up to me with a hairthat looked like he hadn't used a comb in years and then got blown in from a windtunnel....... I tried not to laugh but It was extreemly bad almost beyond repair... Then, I finally helped him fix it where he looked more like himself again and people said that i was mean for doing that........ Then there is this "friend" who isnt really a friend but i know her and i have to sit and watch her make out with a different boyfriend every week. She has been trying to push me to have sex with my bf when both my bf and I have decided we are waiting until marraige because of our beliefs. Then today she actually asked me "why aren't you ever ON your bf like I am with mine?" I WANTED to say because I'm not a slut like you. but I didn't. I told my bf about this hoping he would take my side but instead he just told me how rude i was to her. Am I really a *****?
2006-09-22 09:47:16 · 37 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Firstly, bald men rule, Yul Brynner lookalikes are best, get your guy to shave his hair and that's one problem solved.
With regards to the Slu*ty friend, she's just jealous you have a meaningful relationship. Ignore the B*tch. Your guy is just making efforts to sound compasionate in a non-blokey way to win your affections!
2006-09-22 09:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really see where you fixing his hair is mean at all. Maybe a little OCD but not mean. And it's none of that girl's business if you are all over your boyfriend or not. If that's what she wants to do then by all means...go for it, but if you want to be more reserved (respected) then more power to you! It is also not her business whether you have sex or not! I praise you for your stand and am glad to know that I'm not the only one. Perhaps he is taking her side because part of him wants a fling? Address that. Let's face it....we all want to have sex in some degree or another. The difference is how we act on it! And how can he think you are rude if you didnt say it?
2006-09-22 09:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times.
2006-09-22 09:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the first part of your question about the hair, it may not have appeared rude to you but if your bf liked the idea of you fixing his hair no one elses openion matters.....
second part of the question i cannot understand why do you have to sit and watch some one else make out with her bf that alone is rude and curious, and as you said you and your bf want to wait no one can make you do what you dont want to do,
well you did right not to call her a b---h but you can tell her to mind her own business, as for your boyfriend he should really not have sided with her may be he was pissed with you over the hair fixing and that was his way of showing it, its not a very big issue get past it you have better thing to look forward to in life, best of luck
2006-09-22 09:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not yet. But if he keeps taking up for her I would really tell both of them exactly how I felt about everything that was on my mind. Then you could really tell both of them that is what being a ***** is all about. And I would really pull her off to the side and tell her not to worry about my sex life that instead she should be worried about her sexual health and get to a doctor and be checked for STD'S. But no you haven't been a ***** yet!
2006-09-22 09:56:10 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are different ways of articulating yourself to a person. I feel that you were wrong in the manner of how you came at her by calling her out her name. If you would have explained yourself differently to her than i think you would have not been a "B" but since you came at her like one than yea. For example, "maybe i am not the type of person to be on my boyfriend like yourself" or explain to her that you guys are two different people and although you guys are friends that you don't have to be similar in everything that you guys do. No matter what you should have not have to stomp to any ones level to make a point. Too get back in good with her or to clear your conscious i think you should apologize. You don't have too but just a suggestion.
2006-09-22 09:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys hairstyles are different these days. Maybe he was trying a new look and wanted your opinion. He felt bad about you laughing at him...well, say honey, it's not you...it's not who I fell in love with. As for the "friend" ditch her...get rid of her....she sounds a little jealous of your "moral" relationship. GET RID OF her...she will only bring you down.
2006-09-22 09:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw u aint a bissshh but i am cause i woulda told the hoa look i dont know wich one of those you think are your boy friends your make in out with cuz u change um like i hope u change ya underwear, whered you learn that shyt from n e way? u know how u be nasty with all them mens, did your momma teach u that? cuz somebody need to tell ya mommah what ya out here doin actin like you know some about somebody, y are you all in my buisiness any way isnt ya lil friend you messin with this week keep n ya buisy? just cuz i dont put mah pussy on the table for everybody and i do mean everybody to eat from dont mean i dont take care of mines girl so you need to step back recognize and come correct before i have to correct you again see im a lady about my self, and why you got me actin like this for i dont know -
naw i probally woulds snapped for real but since you seem like a church girl i tried to clean it up - but naw you aint a bisshhh baby girl you just got respect for yourself, just remember not to judge anyone, to tell a person the truth about their selves is a whole other story -
2006-09-22 09:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - You have the right to make your own choices and be proud of them. U should have asked her why she would even ask you such a personal question. Hope you didn't even bother answering.
My man appreciates it when I fix something wrong - I would want someone to help me when needed.
2006-09-22 10:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think before you speak to people, I don't think you are a *****, you try to be truthful, and sometimes you say mean things. Your boyfriend was right that was rude, but it is also rude of her to make you explain your beliefs.
2006-09-22 10:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by hawkespatricia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋