I just found out that i am pregant with my fourth baby.......I lost my sex drive i don't even want my husband to touch me or sleep in the same bed and i don't know how to make it better
2006-09-22 09:46:35 · 4 answers · asked by angie m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think you are just stressed. I know when I first found out I was pregnant with out second, I was so "sick" of him I did the same thing. I just needed to relax and relaize everything would be okay. Worring about financies, and houses, and mini vans and anything else that's on your mind. Plus, you have three kids....that is so much pressure, and now pregnant, I am sure more tired (like three kids aren't tiring enough he he) maybe you just need a break. Maybe a night alone to relax and read a book. Or go the other way and a night alone with nothing to do, but talk to your husband. Good Luck!
2006-09-22 09:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by angie_laffin927 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you get into the second trimester things will probably increase. But don't feel bad if they don't. You have 3 kids already. That's a lot of work. Not to mention taking care of the house and fixing dinner for the family. Wow! Maybe if you take a little extra time for yourself you may feel more like being intimate with your husband,. But from experience if you don't ever get that time then your not going to want to give yourself to your husband when you haven't had a break yourself.
2006-09-22 09:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by AB11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor. There are drugs that a woman can take that increases her libido. However, I don't know if they are safe for the baby when you're pregnant or nursing.
2006-09-22 09:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hormones are gonna be crazy for a bit... you know that! Sit your hubby down and talk with him. You two have done it 3 imtes before... you can do it again,.
2006-09-22 09:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋