My husband does not pay any bills even though he has a full time job. I have a years of mental and physical abuse from him. He does not have his name on the house tenancy. Will an occupation order remove him from the house. Would the law be on my side?
2006-09-22 09:25:09 · 33 answers · asked by soggykipper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kik him out
2006-09-22 09:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, firstly you need some LEGAL advice. I work in family law so I know about this stuff. If you got an Injunction out against him on the grounds of his violence to you, then he won't be allowed anywhere near you or your property. If the house is not in his name, then you are massively ahead here!! Get him out, get an Injunction and Occupation Order and get yourself residency of any young children you may have. Then get yourself a Divorce. Do you think you will get Legal Aid? If so, ring up a law firm that does it and get on with it - that way you won't have to pay any where near what you would privately. If he is still being violent, just get out and go to a womens refuge asap. Then you can have an URGENT injunction issued against him which can happen within a couple of days. If he's abusing you, then yes, the law is on your side. But for heavens sake, don't put it off. And please please don't go back to his sorry *** once you have got rid of him.
2006-09-22 10:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Redhead 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have let him get away with it for a very long times from what you have written, you should take responsibilty for part of the situation.
Take legal advice, though bearing in mind that although your name is on the tenancy he has equal rights to the house.
Seek advice from the proper people, citizens advice is a good place to start as well as solicitors. You can only get so much advice from nice people on here, the choice however will always be yours
2006-09-25 05:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God yes, be prepared first though consult a freebie lawyer or even speak to a police officer just in case.
You could try an injunction or restrining order if he is potentially violent then a police officer may need to be present. If you own any property though you may need to give up half in a divorce settlement.
If you cant get any police help i'm sure you know some big beefy friends!
2006-09-22 09:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is to tell him its over and ask him to leave. Then what you need is a young stud to come and give you some loving. That way he will leave the house as he will not be able to handle his wife getting better s e x than he could ever provide. Make sure he knows he is a free loading lazy B a s t a r d! Good Luck.
2006-09-22 09:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, apply to the courts for an exclusion order, ask for an injuction also. You can do that if only your name is on the mortgage or rent book.
Certain DSS benefits will give you free lagal aid but in any case solicitors will give the first hour of advice free of charge. (By law)
If you have children you can stay in the house until they are 18 or over if they are dependant on you.
The judge will always make orders based on whose needs are the greatest.
2006-09-22 09:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by tucksie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh how awful for you, next time he physically abuses you involve the police and get an injunction order against him so he cant come anywhere near you or the house. Try seeking help from women's refuge who help people in the same situation as you. Good luck
2006-09-22 10:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by SUZY S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could Divorce him for Mental Cruelty, & as the tenancy is in your name your within your rights to have him ejected/removed/kicked out etc............ dont put up with s*** when you dont have to
2006-09-25 09:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write out a statement saying he has 30 days to move out, get it noterized, make a copy for yourself. And when the 30 days is up, kick him out. Call the police to have him removed if you have to.
2006-09-22 09:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by Asia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have worked to my bone to provide for my family whilst he have a job and wine and dine. then he turn my kids against me with lies and iPhone and money promising them private education in uk. I cant afford that. also his parents had tried getting rid of my kids by opening a window for toddler to fall out from his bed and open front door to walk out to busy road in front of house. I discipline and teach my kids value of money and hardwork but he wins hands down. now my kids wont come to me and rather stay with him. he is aggressive and abusive to me and rewards my kids for screaming and attacking me in my own home. get out quick. I am stuck without family here or lose my kids. what should I do
2016-03-27 00:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get advice from a solicitor (you may be entitled to Legal Aid too!) or from your local Citizens Advice Bureau. Good luck.
2006-09-22 09:26:46 · answer #11 · answered by Carella 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋