I have been with my man for 8 years and i'm trying to get his attention things are old and he does not pay attention to me as much anymore what should I do? should i get gress up and take him out?
2006-09-22 09:23:50 · 9 answers · asked by missy mae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's not that he does not like me but we have two kids and he is a truck driver so i try to make life at home as easy as possible but there is little time for us
2006-09-22 09:35:12 · update #1
No, don't do that...Dress up and look good, but don't take him out. Paint your nails, fix your hair, your make-up, but just become the mystery you used to be. He thinks he knows everything about you and there is no challange any longer, no mystery, just "my wife". Don't try to make him jealous, that usually gets ugly, but change what you do, how you do things, and this is hard, but do not try to get his attention, don't beg, don't cry, he will chase you when he senses something is amiss. If he wants to get romantic, tell him that he is just a little too late, you got hot and he has just not been taking care of you, so you went to the bathroom and took care of it yourself and you are no longer in the mood. Pretty soon, he will be after you like crazy. Then you tell him that he needs to take you out and romance you and convince you that he really wants you, just like the first time he wanted to get it, because you are not convinced he really wants it that bad... Don't take it too far, but it will work, trust me...
2006-09-22 09:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What You Should Do Is Get All Dressed Up And All Beautied up And Show Him The Best Night Of His Life. Take Him To Diner And Maybe Some Club Hopping And Then Take Him Home And **** Him Like You Never ****** Him Before.
2006-09-22 16:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, if you stay at home or get home before he does, try making sure the house is clean, making the meals that you know are his favorites, dressing up and going out on particular nights of the week. Think of all the things you used to do when you first got married. Maybe you didn't do these things but, things like a clean house and home made meals are some things that a guy really likes.
2006-09-22 16:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Fun2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
START SHOWING HIM THAT YOU DON'T NEED HIS ATTENTION. START HAVING TIME TO YOURSELF AND DOING THINGS YOU ENJOY. MAKE SURE HE SEES YOU OR KNOWS OF COURSE. IF HE DOESN'T COME AROUND I WOULD BE SHOCKED. IF HE DOESN'T THEN MAYBE IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON. MAKE HIM TAKE YOU OUT INSTEAD OF YOU TAKING HIM OUT.
2006-09-22 16:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by ronniep17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things that bring back good memories, do new things, do something,and good luck
2006-09-22 16:27:00 · answer #5 · answered by victorian.ivory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you get dressed up and go out and leave him at home!!!
2006-09-22 16:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop paying attention to him and then just wait for him to react
2006-09-22 16:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by rabiyah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get undressed and take him for the ride of his life.
do this everyday till he begs for mercy. and then you do it for another week.
2006-09-22 16:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tim D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that is very strange i had that question before check on him often
2006-09-22 16:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by If I Were A Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋