My best friend (shes a girl I'm a guy, we are both 15, I like her more and think she may too) was sick for about two weeks, and she is good in school so she is fine with most, but we do high level maths so two weeks of that is alot. She called me today in school (she was still home sick) and asked if I could text her the maths, but I told her how far ahead we had gone, so she asked me to come over to her place on saturday to show her. First off, is this a sign of anything? (not really reading too much into it, I just assume she doesnt want to fall behind) And what things can I do that might show her a bit more that I like her? I dont want to tell her outright, because if she doesnt feel the same then it might make the friendship "weird".
Thanks.
2006-09-22 09:20:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
On msn, she just called me "my little peardrop" this is Highly weird for her, she isn't lovey dovel like that at all.
2006-09-22 09:21:19 · update #1
Good one. You are in a little of a tricky situation. I'd go over there on Saturday and just go with the flow. That's all you can do. Most importantly, don't be afraid, it's all natural.
2006-09-22 09:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by fisch_maegg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go and help her catch up and when that is finished tell her that you like spending time with her and wanted to spend more. See what her reaction is and that should answer your question. Give it a few moments to sink in what you said to her and if she shy's away from you then she may not like you in that way, don't bring it up again unless she does, anyway this will put the idea in her head and she may be talking to you about it soon. Good luck.
2006-09-22 16:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the weirding out the friendship. just go with the flow u r only 15 and there is a lot more time to figure out if she is interested too. Just help her with her math for now and be a good friend
2006-09-22 16:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by bobsdidi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How cute!!! Puppy love, ahhh I shouldnt worry about it. If she likes you, wait for her to make the first move, never ever I mean ever make a first move on a girl because if you have a doubt that she might like you, then the truth of the matter is, is that she might like you. And thats a might! lol Just go to her house and make sure you keep it cool, dont try to put up a front like trying to impress her because she will notice. Have a good day.
2006-09-22 16:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well don't blow it and whatever you do, Don't rush anything! Be cool and go over and help her out. Get closer to her before you reveal your true feelings. There's nothing wrong with friends doing fun things together, like going to a movie or bowling. You will find out in no time how she feels about you. Main thing is to be patient and don't seem desperate or needy! Girls don't like that.
2006-09-22 16:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by liberalthinktank 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is sick and needs help. right now she will appreciate anyone who has always been there for her. it like the thing where patients fall madly in love with their nurses.
Anyway. jus be there for her. Help her all you can. Let her see the nice guy sining through in her hour of need. It will come your way in time. don't rush it.
drop subtle remarks like "i'd do anything for you, you know that". it will hit the mark. just be patient. If she is interested she will make the move or let you know you should. Listen to what she says and let it sink in before answering. Girls like to say things with double meanings to see if we catch their drift.
2006-09-22 16:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could bring her get well balloons or candy or something to show her that you arent just over there to help with math, but to show her how much you care. you could also tell her some things that she missed like funny things that happened during class etc. and tell her that you wished she was there so you could have shared the laugh! this will give her the clue that you missed her and maybe she will repeat it back hopefully! good luck!
2006-09-22 16:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all she doesn't want to fall behind and you are friends so go help her. Second, take her some soup or sprite and a flower to let her know you care. Then help her with her math. Have you left yet? Go to her fast boy but take her somethen.
2006-09-22 16:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself for one thing if she does like you its for who you are.
your right it could make friendship wierd or it could make it better, she is your best friend and i know your only 15 but i think she would understand if you told her how you felt, honesty is the best policy. Good luck x
2006-09-22 16:24:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
TOUGH SITUATION. IF YOU DON'T TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL MAYBE SHE WILL SHOW YOU HOW SHE FEELS. YOU CAN HELP HER CATCH UP ON MATH. AT THE SAME TIME JUST TELL HER A LITTLE AND ASK HER WHAT SHE THINKS. ONLY THING THAT WILL TELL IS TIME.
2006-09-22 16:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by ronniep17 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋