I HAD A REALLY BAD DAY PLEASE read.?

Question

Today at school in my classmates were going around talking about who is the ugliest guy in the class then?
and they said this little boy that talks to no one that was very embarssing this girl in my class said whos the ugliest girl then she blurted out my name and then other people started to look at me and 2 guys pointed at me and some girls looked at me and said no comment and started laughing the girl who ask who is the ugliest in my class really hates me I know that all the girls in my class dosen't look better then me i'm getting tired of her should I go to the guidance counsler cause I dont think she should've ask that question and then one guy said my best friend now she is upset what should I do??

Answer 1

Kids in school can be brutal. They need a scapegoat because they feel insecure about themselves. Don't let it get to you. I used to feel like an ugly duckling & got picked on, but a few years later guys were hitting on me & calling me beautiful.

School isn't the end of the world, it just feels like it at the time. Just ignore them & feel good about yourself! You are a beautiful miraculous child of nature. The people making those comments are the ugly ones. Ugly inside and out. If they liked themselves they wouldn't have to put others down to feel better about themselves. Be strong & confident. No one can bring you down unless you let them!!!

Chin up, sweetie!

Answer 2

Beatles song- "Speaking words of wisdom, Let it Be, let it Be."

Ultimately it is not worth it to get into a battle like this. Another cliche, but true- " a wise man (woman) won't argue, and a fool don't know how." Pretty is as pretty does, and vice versa. The most beautiful people on the outside can be ugly to others, and that cancels out what they see in the mirror for my money. I can think of a couple of good friends in high school that would not have won a beauty contest... until they got into their 20's and were gorgeous, and now is was pretty inside and out.

Sorry ya had a bad day, but the weekend is here, so just chill and enjoy it. Smile at your enemies, they will not understand it, and it will 'hang 'em up!"

Answer 3

These are hurtful games played by immature young people. I know it is easy for me to just tell you what they say doesn't matter, but I know it hurt you, but let me try to cheer you up a little, ok? Did you ever read the story by Hans Christian Andersen called "The Ugly Duckling?" It's a story about a baby swan who gets caught up with a bunch of ducklings and they all talk about how ugly this little swan is (because they don't realize it's really a swan). Then, as they all grow up, they realize that they are all just ducks, but this one that they treated so badly turned out to be a beautiful swan, much more than they could ever hope to be. You see, the fact that you have a heart that can be hurt shows that you are a much more beautiful person than any of these kids who can find enjoyment in hurting other people. It's okay that it hurt your feelings--it shows you have inner beauty. And who knows how any of you will look when you all grow up a few years? As long as you concentrate on being your beautiful self on the inside, your outer beauty will show, too. Probably you are already more beautiful on the outside than they are now, and they are just jealous of you anyway, so the best thing you can do is just forgive them for being so childish and be grateful you are not like them. Hope that helps! Now go enjoy your weekend, it will all be forgotten on Monday!

Answer 4

I'm a teacher. Bullying is a big problem in schools today. Yes, go to your guidance counselor. Also, I suggest the book, "Weak Fish". It would be great if your counselor would have the entire faculty read it. We did a couple of years ago and the book really points out the problems with bullying. Teachers all around the school were on the look out for any bullying at all and putting a stop to it. We even developed a support group for victims of bullying.

Answer 5

People fool you into thinking that school days are the best days in your life well, if the truth be told they are not and children can be very cruel.
From the sound of things you seem to have some issues around self esteem and confidence you need some reassurance about you looks and how to handle situations like the one you found yourself in today. I suggest you see your school counsellor who can give you some information/self help information on building yourself esteem the sooner you do it the sooner you can address what is going on before it goes too far. Good Luck .

Answer 6

I know it's hard. I was in the same boat as you when I was younger. Some of the things they say can be SO HURTFUL. Let me tell you a story that might give you a little hope for the future...

When I was about 12 I was going through my "fat" stage. I was very disporportionally pudgy, and the kids at school really made it apparent. They would say "Have another twinky FATTY" and things like that. I had a crush on one boy (can't remember his name right now), and I wanted to ask him out SO BADLY. When I finally did (I had a friend do it for me) he said HELL NO. Not only no, but HELL NO. That hurt me SO BADLY that I didn't even want to look at another boy until I was 16. But, when I was about 17, I came out of my fat stage and actually lost weight and was hot. All the boys wanted me - and even the boy that I had such a crush on all those years ago - came to ask me out. He came up to me on the dancefloor one night at a club and said "Damn girl - your lookin fine - can I take you out sometime?" And I looked at him straight in the eye and said "HELL NO". He didn't know who I was. And I left him standing slack jawed on the dancefloor while I walked away - grabbed my friends and left.

So there is light at the end of the tunnel. Keep hope for the future. Keep your spirits high, and get involved in some after school activities. Hope I helped a little. Good luck!

Answer 7

I can tell by the sentence structure and the way grammar/punctuation is used that you're probably no older then 7 or 8; did you get help with the "big words" like embarrassing? Come on...Who really cares; obviously there are more important things in life then the mindless ramblings of an uneducated ignoramus...

Answer 8

I know at the age you are now, it seems like a crisis, but believe me, It seems like the ugliest people in the classroom were the exact people that could ask a question like that. We are all different in our own way, no body should judge anyone solely on looks. Center on your education, not on who says what. With these precious tools, you will be laughing all thre way to the bank!

Answer 9

SORRY but LOL ..I was a big bully in school I would beat up boys and girls older or younger then me and tell my teachers and principals off ....so really just laugh about it and deal with it and just next time saysomething rude right back if shes not going to stop why should u take it give her a taste of what shes doing.

Answer 10

Girls are b*tches, and trust me ppl say that even if they know you aren't ugly. It's usually b/c they're jealous as i have heard so many ppl myself say that a girl is ugly and laugh but actually she isn't ugly at all. Take no notice of these girls and if they ever say anything else don't believe what they say or they are winning in making you feel bad as thats what bullies love to do, just remind yourself you are beautiful and you will find the strength in yourself not to care what they think. I think most of us girls have all been there but you are the mature girl who doesn't rise to their bait Hopefully these girls will grow out of their bitcheness. If it is making you're life miserable then speak to someone about it as if you don't it will go unnoticed and the bullies will have won in ruining you're self-esteem. Good luck, hope monday is better! x