My boyfriend (of three years) and I have been having real trouble keeping our relationship going smooth lately although we have never had a problem with this pre- pregnancy. I am almost 6 months pregnant and for the most part have my hormones under control, our relationship trouble has gotten worse lately. I know that I should have waited until marrige to have children, but this was not planned and I do not believe in abortion. Any advice as to how I can make our relationship better?
Thank you!
2006-09-22 09:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Taryn 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Your hormones are probleys everywhere right now. So relax, don't use this as an excuse though!!! make sure you and your partner are giving each other support, continually communicating about your feelings. Enjoy life and enjoy your pregnancy!!
2006-09-22 09:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think you have your hormones under control, but they are not something you can control, unfortunately. Pregnancy does strange things to a woman's body! I think more than anything it is the stress of having a baby that is causing your problems. You are both under a lot of pressure and stress, and not sure what to expect. Communicate....let him know you are scared, nervous, etc and that he is experiencing similar emotions. You will figure it all out and will both be amazed how everything just comes naturally. Babies are not "unplanned", they are surprises, and the very best one you will EVER get! Enjoy your pregnancy ~ good luck and congrats!
2006-09-22 09:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in ther pregnancy is hard on everyones relationship, its a scary time and a big change that takes a toll, think of positive things to do together take walks, baby shop, and go out to dinner while you still can
2006-09-22 09:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you feel like you want to stay together but need tools to communicate, make your relationship better, etc., think about seeing a relationship counsellor. They are not just for Danny Bonaduce.
2006-09-22 09:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by wwbrad90 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are noy 100% sure that you are ready for a baby then I would say give the baby to adoption there are many people out there that can't have children like us. We have been trying ti adopt for sometime now with no luck, So keep it in mindand I wish you luck barrygeller@yahoo.com
2006-09-22 09:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Barry G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just make sure to communicate and tell him how you feel with out being a b**** (be honest). I know its hard but that's the only thing that keeps me and my husband together.
2006-09-22 09:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try thinking of the good things he does not always the wrong things he does
2006-09-22 09:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋