I get through one complicateted thing easy, then bang! i get a stab in the heart with a slight twist as well. I am so fed up of battling against this hard life, i go out of my way to help people, even get on with my life well, and im always the one whom seems to pay the price for everything. Im getting no wear, if eel like im running a constent treadmill.
2006-09-22 08:53:04 · 23 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No good deed goes unpunished! Welcome to the grown-up world!
2006-09-22 08:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firefly:
Sometimes the older you become the harder life gets. I remember when I was 18-19 it was the most hardest time of my life I was in an abusive relationship I almost has a second nervous breakdown (I had my first at 16) it was just a very unsettling and scary time in my life.
Now I am much older married serving God and working etc and there are things in my life after 13 years of marriage that are STILL hard.
In life there will always be problems and crap to deal with, hurdles and obstacles to overcome no matter how old you are.
I know how you feel about "paying the price" many times I did the right thing and was either persecuted for it or overlooked and ignored.
You don't learn when you have an easy life you learn when the hurts and disappointments make you a stronger, mature person.
Look for the good, I encourage you to get into a good church when young ladies your age, if these thoughts persist get counseling from a family member, friend or church person.
This too shall pass and remember to keep a journal to write down your feelings. Be encouraged.
2006-09-22 09:35:48 · answer #2 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Up until 18 months ago I felt just exactly the same as you did, guess what I did, I decided if anyone wanted anything anymore then they would damn well have to do it themselves because I was sick of been their punchbag and shoulder to cry on, I gave it to everyone straight and told them enough is enough, some stayed away some came back, the ones that did know they have to leave their crap at the door because I do not want to know, you are far too soft and yes its a lovely thing, but do yourself a favour and toughen up a bit and then you can get off that treadmill just like me, its a really good feeling I can tell you.
2006-09-22 09:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life can seem tough at times. But it isn't always hard. Try thinking of a time you were really happy, then work out what was different in your life then. We can never go back, but we can try to make things easier for ourselves. Maybe by changing jobs, moving, or just taking a holiday. Think about what you enjoy doing, what relaxes you; whether it's going out with friends or staying in with a good book. Make more time for you and I'm sure things will seem a bit better.
2006-09-22 09:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your probably a very nice girl and do very nice things but that's the way it is sometimes, it has happen to me.I have help person after person and then to top of they end up somehow ignoring me when things go well. But you know what? As long as the man upstairs is watching it's all that matters.Calm down relax take a walk and think about something nice that is going on in your life.
2006-09-22 09:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If life were easy, you'd be bored. Life is a gift and a challenge. Enjoy it while you can. Know that there are autistic people out there who have never known a broken heart. Never known love. Would you be like that? If they had a choice I know they wouldn't.
Step up to the challenge and be changed! Embrace the you you will become afterwards.
2006-09-22 08:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by Max Marie, OFS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 15:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off this sounds like a relationship issue. you probably had experience with some bad guys and now your outlook on life is tainted. what you have to do is seek wisdom. the book of Proverbs can give you that fix. basically you should become "selfish" for a while. meaning, start to seek understanding for yourself first before offering understanding to others. hang out. try different and unusual things. value yourself.
seek happiness. if you're happy, then you'll love yourself. if you love yourself, then you'll love life! God Bless.
2006-09-22 09:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds like you're doing fine to me. That's pretty much the story for the rest of Creation. Except maybe for those who are selfish and think only about themselves, never marry, or do drugs all day long, or drink, or live to party, or dance, or or or... the rest of us mere mortals suffer. Life sucks. Purgatory here on Earth!
2006-09-22 08:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by rocken_heimer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have to realize,
take the punches as they roll.
as long as you are breathing life will be hard.
I wish you had given details as to why you are so fed up with the battle, but keep at it.
suicide is never an answer.
I'm just alittle worried about you.
and do yourself a favor,if you are putting up with people who stress you out leave them , get away from the stress. We all know what it is, we are just afraid to do anything about it.
2006-09-22 08:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well think about this if life was always easy then you would be handed everything and wouldn't know anything. By life being harder for you then you are learning the best lessons ever, "EXPERIENCE"
2006-09-22 08:57:36 · answer #11 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋