I'm new at this. Am I bisexual if I still like guys, but I am in love with this one girl? It's not like I'm on the prowl for girls or anything, and I still think that guys are attractive, but I like this girl more than I've ever liked a guy. So am I technically bisexual, or is this "just a phase"?
2006-09-22 08:50:48 · 21 answers · asked by Promise... 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Labels are for soup cans not people.
I prefer girls, but I also like guys. I've been that way for years. So am I bisexual? No. Because I don't like both sexes equally. Am I a lesbian? No. Because I don't like ONLY girls. Am I straight? NOT A CHANCE.
Don't angst over it, chica. You are who you are, and if anybody asks, tell them what I always say: "I'm attracted to people, not genders."
2006-09-22 08:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by living_in_a_bell_jar 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I think it could be a phase, but I also think more women are into other women then they seem to admit, There is just not as much about a mans body that is sexual as a woman's. I mean how many magazines are there with men posing, compared to women? It is because women were made to be more attractive, maybe for men, but us women find it attractive too. Just be careful, because if you are only into this one female it could be something more than sexual it could be her that you are attracted to, which means it could become a relationship not just sex. And the reason I say it as to be careful is I believe it would be easy to fall in love with another woman.
2006-09-22 16:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how young you are and at what stage of emotional maturity you now are. Chances are you're still in your developing teens and are somewhat confused.
My advice is not to place too much focused worry on this matter right now; in time, you'll come to know yourself better than you do now---and then, you'll have the emotional maturity to accept who you are inside. Then, you'll come to answer if you're bisexual or it's a passing phase of life.
2006-09-24 05:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bisexual..and you will go through phase when you like men and then women..and sometimes ..your more into guys than girls then you meet that special someone and then your into her..I am more into girls then guys and i do have a special guy in my life..its different with guys..we are pigs..i love this woman and she wants to be friends..even after she flirted with me first ..i am trying to get her out of my mind and i cant ..i want her that much and tomarrow i will be with my guy friend at an orgy..yes that right an orgy..about 20 other guys..at some one house..i am only going for him..i like sex one on one..so your bi and from time to time we will feel more stairt then gay we all do it..enjoy and have a good time..later
2006-09-22 22:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not a phase sweetie. You love who you love no matter what gender they are. Don't be put off by the label.. It's just that, a label. Just be honest with yourself and be with the person you love. Labels do NOT matter when it comes to what makes you happy. Best wishes.
2006-09-22 23:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Michele B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could very well be a phase or it could be that you're bi. Just give it some time to figure things out. Only you can know.
2006-09-22 16:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexuality is fluid meaning it changes all the time. Although most people prefer to label themselves as either straight, gay or bi. But if you don't believe in labels then just go with the flow and don't feel restricted to who you find attractive.
Enjoy
2006-09-22 16:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by fire555 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This could be a phase. So enjoy while it lasts. Don't worry about labels. Sexual pleasure that's what count
2006-09-22 17:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Knowsitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... I'm not sure, but I think if you LOVE a girl, but just LIKE guys, your like, 75% Lesbien, and 25% normal(into guys), and you are kind of bisexual. I'm not quite sure.
2006-09-25 16:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a phase or youre fully bi...im bi...i get crushes on guys all the time
2006-09-22 18:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋