This question is mainly for guys but also open to girls to answer. My friend wanted to know because she has a guy friend who she knew for about 4 years and she has been getting some funny vibes from him...like he wants to try something. He stares at her hard and always wants her over to spend the night. She was always able to go over and stay over at his house like one of the girls but now it may be different. I mean the answer may be evident because we talked about this before but just so she is not jumping to conclusion she would like some tips. She has never been exposed to this kind of stuff before.
2006-09-22 08:38:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay...My friend is a grown woman and i do not think age has anything to do with wether a women gets rape or not. This is a sensitive topic and if people are not able to answer a question and not get rude about it then pass this question. THANK YOU.
2006-09-22 08:54:57 · update #1
you will most likely won't know till its to late....some times he might start asking you questions about sex ....watch out for when he starts getting you to drink to much that when he most likely try to rape you this way he can say you asked for it....and many people might believe him if it goes to court ....if out with your girl friend go home with her you can always meet him another day when you have not been drinking
2006-09-22 09:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by oyster bay bob 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
well, you can talk to the boy and tell him that the friendship you share is platonic and if he has sex in mind you are not ready for an intimate relationship with him, he has to know how to take no for an answer ,if he persists and seems to hedge over it then you might be in for some unplesantness, by the way if you have no feelings for the guy you got to be fair and not lead himon, it would be in good interest for both to end the relationship which appears to be one sided, dont be alone with the guy and no over night stays this would only send wrong signals to him, take care , its better to give up a friend, than loose your virtue
2006-09-22 08:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is about power, not sex. It's probably best she not say overnight with someone whom she thinks may want to "make a move" on her, especially if it's unwelcome. He may not rape her, but even trying something sexually and being rebuffed wouldn't be a pleasant situation for either party. If alcohol or drugs were involved in some way, it could even become dangerous.
2006-09-22 08:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, has it occured to either of you that the guy is simply attracted to your friend and wants to have sex WITH her consent? What's with all this rape crap? Is he a criminal? Do either of you have ANY evidence that he's violent? Maybe the best thing would be for 14 year olds to not date until they actually gain some maturity.
2006-09-22 08:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend if she does not want to be with this guy and he is making her feel uncomfortable by just looking at her chances are he wants more from her then she is ready to give so please tell her to not to go over there and if he tries anything the police will be called on him
2006-09-22 08:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rape has less to do with sex and more to do with power and violence in most cases. The only thing to do is when and if he does try something (negatively, not just flirting), she should be prepared to kick his nuts up his throat! Learn self defense and she should be fine.
2006-09-22 08:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to get away from. If she feels uncomfortable tell her to keep away from him. There is no reason to keep a friend like this in her life, especially if she feels threatened
2006-09-22 08:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For one, DONT tell if he wants to or not, that person shouldn't be her FRIEND to begin with if he acts like that. Friends dont do that to other friends and make them feel uncomfortable, he sounds like he just wants to use her in my own opinion.
2006-09-22 08:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he has that far away look in his eye's maybe she's looking at him the same way like an ice cream cone most likely he want's to bring the whip cream & cherry's????
2006-09-22 10:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by dirtdevil215 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the guy looks at her too much and pushing her to a coner then she should avoid him and i agree with farien3
2006-09-22 09:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by princess anjola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋