Please comment if you have any/all of the following in your relationship with your significant other. I want to know if I am searching for something that just doesn't exist. If you have 2 or more please tell me how you got it :)
Emotional connection
Physical connection
Intellectual connection
2006-09-22 08:27:24 · 24 answers · asked by Is_it_just_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, but not in the same order.
2006-09-22 08:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got them all they all came through communication and trials!Emotionally he is sensitive but very proud and tough we are exactly alike in that way we are both also stubborn. Intellectually we can discuse things that many 21 and 22 year olds neglect. I wanted to know about his beliefs, his morals, his likes, dislikes, and issues with the world in general. Having such a great connection in other areas led to our physical connection. He knows everything I like we talk about our sex life all the time so we know what the other will expect. God Bless
2006-09-22 08:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you want does exist but finding it means you have to look for the things in a person that will bring these connections about. If you want emotional and mental connection you have to date intellegent people who are sensitive and you don't find that cruising match.com or myspace. The physical connection is easy. All you are looking for is looks and later auditioning them for sexual compatibility. But if you want the other stuff too, worry about physical/sexual compatibility last, not first.
2006-09-22 08:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by Onegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I've got all three connections with my boyfriend. Besides, I've got the spiritual connection with him too. I never really believed in a soul mate connection until I met my current boyfriend. But it took a lot of courage and failed relationships before I finally met the perfect guy for me.
2006-09-22 13:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All three. How? Read on . . .
Emotional connection -- by caring for and supporting each other and having children we adore. Not only do we love each other, we treat each other both like spouses and like friends.
Physical connection -- by appreciating each other through physical contact, whether it's hugs, good-bye kisses, I-missed-you kisses, holding hands, having sex, or cuddling while the rain patters on the roof at night.
Intellectual connection -- by talking about our own interests and by showing interest in the other's. By going to movies together and talking about them afterward, by discussing current events, and mutual interests.
It's not magic. It can happen if you work toward it.
2006-09-22 08:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but those are things that you have to work on. Relationships require some effort in order to maintain these connections. They don't just exist. They do at first, but you have to keep them going.
2006-09-22 08:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will honestly say I have them all with my husband. Don't search for things, they will come naturally. When you do meet that right person, everything will fall into place......Emotional, they will be your rock when you feel like you are going to crumble, Physical, they will fit with you like a hand and a glove, and Intellectually, you will learn and explore together, end each other sentences, know each others thoughts, it will all come together, providing that that is the RIGHT ONE for you........good luck on your quest for finding what you are in search of
2006-09-22 08:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional connection- yes
Physical connection- yes
Intellectual connection- yes
We dated for a long time and our love grew over time. We care deeply about each other as human beings. Some connections are stronger than others during various times in our relationship, but we ride the waves and enjoy whatever comes our way.
Also- we are polite to each other. I always say please and thank you to him. We treat each other nicely and have never had a fight. Disagreement, yes, but fight/argument? Never.
2006-09-22 08:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have all three of these but I am not in a healthy relationship...if that makes any sense....well if you think about then I guess Id be minus the emotional...at times.
2006-09-22 08:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I've been there, had all those things. It is possible.
I got it by being patient and not forcing a relationship with someone who I didn't share those all of those connections with me
2006-09-22 08:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It exists. Keep looking until you find that special someone you can connect to in every way. Good luck!
2006-09-22 08:29:10 · answer #11 · answered by gel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋