i am very worried about him ,he has lost his sexual drive and is always tired, yet he is still as attentive as ever and gets very upset if he cant get an erection
2006-09-22 08:27:03 · 16 answers · asked by sandra b 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Is he on any medication or under stress through work/education/personal problems at the moment.
He is going through internal turmoil at the moment and stuck in a downward spiral.
Every time he is in an intimate situation with you he feels the need to get an erection and is worried if he can't. This worry will then have an adverse effect and makes it more difficult to 'Get It Up'
He has, perhaps, not lost his libido but, in actual fact, does not want to put himself in the position where you will both be disappointed.
It is a hard thing for a man to accept and will be affecting him more than you may know.
My advice would be to be patient with him. It would be advisable to maybe see a specialist but for a man to accept he has a problem like this is not nice. It is a very big blow to the ego.
The main point to get across is that this is not permanent and things will improve.
Good luck!
2006-09-22 08:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by paddymac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I think your boyfriend needs to see his GP fairly sharpish, as th hotflushes combined with tiredness and loss of libido sounds horomonal. This is what happens to menopausal women when there horomones go out of whack. Tiredness and flushing is not normal and could be indicative of an endocrine problem (thyroid, lupus, loads of stuff), or some thing more serious, not to scare either one of you but certain cancers produce Estrogen which would account for all the syptoms. If your boyfriend has any tender lumps (actual hard lumps not just a bit bumpy as lymphnodes feel bumpy)in his armpit, groin, testicles or pecs get him to get an emergency Drs appointment tommorrow. It is worth phoning NHS direct and chatting to them. www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk
BUT PLEASE DON'T PANIC as a virus would cover all the syptoms too and sometimes can have odd affects without making people snuffly or obviously ill.
But it's always better to be sure than worry.
2006-09-22 08:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpsychosis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by graviett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he got a mental health problem? Some of the drugs taken for mental illness can cause changes in sex habit. Please remember that one in four people have a mental health problem. What kind of recreational drugs is he on? How much alcahol does he consume? So many variables, have a good chat with him and find out.
2006-09-22 08:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by jimmyfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his hormones are outta whack. He needs to discuss this with his DR.
2006-09-22 08:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a drug addiction ,don't want to worry you though , but I'm no doctor. GOOD LUCK.xxxxx
2006-09-22 08:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by missfattyfudgecake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His Girlfriend.
2006-09-22 12:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him some viagra.
2006-09-22 08:30:09 · answer #8 · answered by a_poor_misguided_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your name is class
is it look at me i'm sandra b
got blonde hair virginity
and thats why your asking this question
2006-09-22 12:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by sbete2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is probably seeing someone else instead of so be cautious
2006-09-22 08:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by randall p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋