2006-09-22 08:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't switch up to different positions, if you want to c*m when you are on top, you will have to work at it - try different momentums. If you are both not flowing smoothly together, your not going to get off.
Try the belly dancer roll - as your coming back up off his d**k, push your butt out far back, as you do this arc the small of your back - this is when you slide back down on him, pushing your tummy forward towards him. Slide all the way down on him - deep. Start slowly then build the momentum up. If you both aren't working together on this, he will not be able to continually hit your spot the right way.
Hope this helps a little, and I hope your able to blow a gasket.
2006-09-22 09:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by saelskies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Certain positions affect you in certain ways. For instance, I have never orgasm when receiving oral. I like it and enjoy it, I just can't orgasm that way. Maybe you feel more self-conscious when on top? And that's why you can't finish in that position? Also sometimes stress plays a big part - if you are stressed out or really tired, you might not be able to orgasm fully.
My advice is to try different things, different positions. You might find that you get the most pleasure and can orgasm out-of-control when getting it doggy-style, oral, or another position. They're all good, but the one that does that to you just became your favorite. :) Please do not worry about it. As long as you are healthy and are having orgasms in other positions, then it's fine. The real problem comes when you can't orgasm at all in any position; not when you can only do it certain positions. I hope that helps. Good luck.
P.S. Please don't listen to people who say it must be something you are doing wrong, just because you don't orgasm that way. Like I said before, everyone, every woman is different. What feels good to some, might not feel good at all to another. Just take it easy; don't worry. It's perfectly fine. and normal.
2006-09-22 15:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a little time to find the right spot and much different than in porn movies some women have to go very slow.It also helps if you hold your breath for a few seconds when you get close.It is much different than clit stimulated orgasms,but the theory is the same once you find the spot don't change the rhythm.
Good luck
2006-09-22 15:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r under riding, need to move up (toward his waste) a bit. It will make him feel better too. Or maybe ur over riding try and move back a little.
For the pregnant girl, try the scissor position. It works for some pregnant ladies.
Good **ck. lol
2006-09-22 15:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to people telling you it's the only way to get off. Everybody is different. I never had one through intercourse until my fiance. You just have to communicate and try different things. There is nothing wrong.
2006-09-22 15:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice.
2006-09-22 15:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
take it easy no pressure as long as you can enjoy the intamcy and get a connection w/your partner it'll just flow. and it'll happen.
don't focuss on your orgasm...just enjoy the sensations and his/her touch and your bodys will move together.
2006-09-22 18:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by mrsgilleland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard this before, I think different positions work for different people
2006-09-22 15:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because yout too self conscious...you gotta relax. turn off the lights if you have too...have a glass of wine...you can your just trying too hard.
2006-09-22 15:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CAN'T KEEP TRYING FOR A MAN IT IS GREAT. DO IT ON TOP THEN ROLL OVER AND FINISH
2006-09-22 15:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by joedad20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋