Girls Making Out?

Question

If a girl kisses or makes out with a girl, is she lesbian? Also, why do guys like it so much? I mean, I'm 13, and I'll kiss my bff on the cheek, or she'll sit on my lap, but my guy friend told us to makeout. He kinda dared us. She was willing, but it felt weird to me, so I didn't Also, my bff made out with my other bff before. Is that lesbian? I'm not homophobic, I promise, haha, so don't worry. I guess I'm a little afraid of being lesbian even though I don't think I am.

Answer 1

No, it's not lesbian. You're right though, men do love it. I saw your heading, "Girls Making Out" and clicked on this question so fast I got dizzy.

Answer 2

At age 13, your hormones are still running wild. What you're describing is actually perfectly normal between girls your age - kissing hello, sharing laps as seats, and so on. (I'm 18 and I STILL use my girl friends as seats when there aren't any chairs available.)

Trust me, hun, it's nothing you need to worry about yet. And don't be afraid of being a lesbian - you probably wouldn't know yet, anyway (it was only last year that I determined I like girls better than guys even though I still like both), and there's nothing wrong with it. It's not as "easy" as being straight, but who said you had to go with the crowd to be any good, right?

Don't worry about it for now - 13 is way too young for most people to be getting into an intimate relationship anyway, and you'll feel much better later if you save "makeouts" and so on for the eventual guy (or girl, for those of us not on the straight team) of your dreams.

Answer 3

I think you are very young, only 13 so of course you are going to have mixed feelings about you sexuality it's normal for people your age to have feelings for bothe sexes.

If these feeling continue for more than a few months then yes you may be bisexual or lesbian. You don't need to tell anyone until you are sure about yourself. Labels are unimportant although many judge by them. But i can assure that if you feel good feelings for women then coming out to yourself is the first step on the road to happiness. Later you can decide when you want to tell others and that too will be amazing for you, it's the greatest relief to be open and not hide who you are to the people close to you.

Take it easy and slow, your young so concentrate on living your life in the best way you see.

Answer 4

It's way to early to tell if she is gay or not - she is probably just "experimenting" or doing something she knows will turn on a guy - even though she dose'nt know why. IF you don't feel comfortable kissing a girl, then don't. If you want to, than do. You have a long way to go until adulthood, but it sound like you already have a good head on your shoulders because you won't fall for every dare or sexual game that some idiot boy suggests. :-)

Answer 5

when a girl kisses another girl, unless you mean it to be sexual it is nothing. If you kiss a girl and it becomes sexual for you, you might be bi or lesbian. I would stick to boys only if you don't feel comfortable kissing girls. It is a personal choice you have to make yourself.

Answer 6

Sounds like a case of experimentation to me. I wouldn't worry too much, it doesnt sound like you have lesbian tendencies. Not that there's anything wrong with that anyway. Best wishes.

Answer 7

First off, good for you for not doing something you really didn't want to just cause your friends wanted you to. Second, sometimes people just experiment with stuff like that...it doesn't mean they are lesbian. But still....geez kids do stuff so early nowadays.

Answer 8

Girls kissing Girls means you are a lesbian!!!! No if ands or buts about it.

Answer 9

I wanna kiss my friend so bad, but I'm afraid she won't like it. I think I love her.

Answer 10

You're 13, you should be kissing anybody yet. Regardless of their sex.