My partner and i had an appointment in town today, we live apx 12 miles from town, my partner's workplace is apx 3 miles the other side of town, she left for work as normal this morning (in her car) She asked me to pick her up from work then run her back. I replied NO you drive in to town and we'll meet. SHE'S STILL GOT THE PIG WITH ME!!!
2006-09-22 07:44:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol its a women thing jump when your told man lol just joking yipee for saying no i hope my hubby donnt read this
2006-09-22 07:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by wobby752002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. There is no way for anyone but you to know if you were in the right to say no, because we do not know the dynamics of your particular relationship.
2. Why is this a question for the 'ladies'? Do you imagine that only women have issues like this with their partners?
2006-09-22 14:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only 3 friggin miles...pick her up so you can go together. Did you ever think that maybe she just might want to spend the extra little bit of time with you? Then again with that attitude I cant imagine why.
2006-09-22 14:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not being funny,just blatantly honest, but if you have to ask this question here in order to feel justified for saying NO, therein probably lies your problem...youre saying something but not feeling ok and solid and secure about it and she probably senses this in you and so its easy to make you feel guilty...say what you mean and mean what you say...she'll get used to it...hope this helps :0)
2006-09-22 15:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right or wrong doesn't matter but you have the right to say no to anything you want to and she has the right to get the hump about it. just drop it and she'll forget about it. is it worth the candle?
2006-09-22 15:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do something you don't wanna do. If she's trying to control you... Well, you were in the right to say no. Good luck.
2006-09-22 14:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by ms pokeylope 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is totally unreasonable.You make a great lover but crap chauffeur
2006-09-22 14:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right... dont give her crap any energy then she might learn to be a bit more reasonable
2006-09-22 14:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't have hurt any thing, for you to pick her up, she probibly had plans to surprise you with, and you just blow it. good goen, lol. think before you speak.
2006-09-22 14:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fair to me.
2006-09-22 14:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋