You know opposites attract and like things repel. I found (especially those three weeks in college) that Lesbians and Gay guys are thrown together because they share a political agenda. Rallys, organizations etc seem to embrace both groups. I consider my self bisexual (but if I have to choose ...Bye, bye boys!) but I don't like 90% of the gay guys I know. Some lesbians are man haters regardless of sexual orientation. But for the rest of us.... Personally I prefer the company of chicks or str8 men anytime. (Sorry Rory...you know I don't mean you babe)
2006-09-22 07:24:12 · 20 answers · asked by dildobait 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think that most gays and lesbians hate, or even dislike, each other.
Although we often work together for a common cause, gay men and lesbians have two separate cultures and therefore tend to stay inside their respective circles.
2006-09-22 07:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally. I just don't think it's true. Sure there are lesbians who don't like gay men. There are some gay men I don't like either. And there have been lesbians I couldn't stand. But they are in a minority. It is strange however that most of the gay men I know have a best female friend and in about 95% cases, they are straight girls. I find that most straight females get along great with gay men. So I find it odd, if you being bisexual, that you do not like most gay men. Perhaps, since you say you prefer chicks to men, that when you show interest in a straight man at all, it is strictly for sex - not a relationship. Just a thought! I am certainly not trying to put you down, so please don't take offense.
2006-09-22 08:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by roqofages 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I do not have that many gay male friends. Only a couple and they are great people. Love them to pieces actually. In all reality I can relate to some things better with a GAY man than I can females...gay or straight! I've always heard that a gay man is a girl's best friend. The two gay men that I know are amazing and I love them!!!
2006-09-22 09:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes yes. I think it's more that, besides a preference for the same sex, we don't have a lot in common as groups. We share political issues, for sure, but if you think about lesbian culture as opposed to gay male culture, you'll find a lot of differences.
2006-09-22 07:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by lcraesharbor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some days you would think that is true! But I do have lesbian friends, and have noticed that some lesbians detest gay men But at the same time they love drag queens! ouch! My head hurts! Lets just all get along and play nice!
2006-09-22 07:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Maid of Honor at my Wedding was my Best Gay Boy - he is my best friend (besides my wife). My social circle is about 97% gay, but half and half on the male to female ratio. Hope that helps!
2006-09-22 07:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alexis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not everyone thinks alike. many gay men loves and hates various of things, vice versa for everything else. so really no, gay people and lesbians do not secretly hate each other. it's just too ridiculous. that's like saying straight men hates straight women.
2006-09-22 12:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by mystic_lonewolf22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have both lesbian and gay friends...and we all get along great (I have straight friends, too). I have no preference, although more of my friends are female. I don't hate men at all....I'm just not physically attracted to them. but I can be friends with them.
2006-09-22 09:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think gay guys who are well groomed find loud butch looking lesbians a bit offensive looking, but then so do I and I'm straight.
2006-09-22 07:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? I LOVE gay men. I have a lot of gay acquaintances. Some of them are drama queens, but they're all really cool in their own unique way :)
2006-09-22 14:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋