2006-09-22 07:18:02 · 34 answers · asked by Alexandria 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
with a lot of experience i can firmly answer your question for you. you have known your friends for all of your life and if I were you I would not even dare to forget about them. sure it is nice to stay in touch, from time to time, but also try to make some new friends while you are married.
both sets of friends will be there to help you out when you need any help whatsoever.
2006-09-22 07:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that would be a mistake. You'll regret it if you do. You don't need to give up your identity or the normal and healthy things you like to do to in order to please your husband. If your friends are toxic, that's a different story. If your friends accept you have a husband then you will all be fine. Some friends are jealous and resentful when you get married.
He shouldn't demand that you abandon your true friends if he truly loves you and your friends need to do things that respect and honor the fact that you are married now.
2006-09-22 07:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never forget your friends... Obviously, once you're married, you shouldn't be hangin' out like you used to, but every once in a while you can spend time with them, and always keep in touch by phone...
2006-09-22 07:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No having your own firends will make yourmarriage easier. Even though when I got married I moved far away from my friends. I wish I wouldn't have. It's good to still get out with out your loved one once in a while. You both need your own personal space.
2006-09-22 07:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to keep in touch with your friends after you get married. Of course, initially you may spend a lot of time with your new hubby and I am sure that your friends will understand that. But you friends are in your life in order to maintain a healthy balance, and you need that. And just think after a day of getting pampered with your girlfriends, you can go home and cuddle up with your man.
2006-09-22 07:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way... forgetting your friends just because you're married isn't healthy. of course, more attention would most probably go to your marriage, but never ever forget your friends. your friends (the true ones) will always be part of the "treasure chest" of your life.
2006-09-22 07:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by jordankulit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no that would be terrible for the both of you,you both need friends and a lil time to have fun on your own that does not mean going to clubs or surroundind yourself around the opposite self.please keep your friends or you might end up feeling like I do right now lonely and scared because once my fiance and I got together I forgot all about them so today I nobody
2006-09-22 07:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by debam bam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, after you're married is when you will need your friends. They are part of who you are. I don't forget about my friends, I just don't hang out with them as much.
2006-09-22 07:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by J j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to want to be just with your significant other, but don't ever forget your true friends. Just like your hubby, they will be there to back you up when times get tough. I know, because after my divorce, they were the ones to help me when I was at my lowest.
2006-09-22 07:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by sedona71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest group of people that het to be invited to a wedding rite are friends and always the closest friends. If you invite them to your wedding how can you now justify forgetting them?
2006-09-22 07:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋