2006-09-22 07:17:11 · 17 answers · asked by J-Boy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I had a similar problem, but I finally decided to make it a priority and get my social life taken care of. What I would recommend is to dedicate yourself to figuring out how talk to and interact with women on a sexual level. You can't get stuck in the "Just Friends" zone, you will never get out. I have listed a particularly good resource in the sources area for this topic.
The quick and dirty rules for talking to women:
1) Be confident, almost to the point of being cocky. You can't care about getting with a woman, she will run from you screaming.
2) You must be genuinely interested in something about her. You can't just run lines and expect it to work, they will see right through you.
3) Invite women into your life. Always be going somewhere and doing something fun. Invite them along, but never ask them to go out on a date with you - instant rejection
4) Make her laugh, she will be your forever. Do this with a cocky attitude and she will be yours the first night.
5) Do not ever focus on any one woman, there are 3 billion on the planet. If one blows you off, go find another.
That is all I have to say on this. Good luck.
2006-09-22 07:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by ccwineguy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're probably making the right choice or are just picky. I can tell whether I like a guy within the first 5 minutes of talking with him, and whether I find him compatible. It might be the reason I'm 25 and haven't had a boyfriend yet, but I do have some cool guy friends.
2006-09-22 14:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Yes. I think you may have some sort of issue of some kind that is either repelling women, scaring them or you just constantly make yourself out to be unavailable. Ask people you know if you're unapproachable for some reason and if all else fails, and I HATE that I'm going to suggest this, what is your physical appearence like? Do you dress well, or like a slob? Do you put time into what you look like, or roll out of bed? Finally, are you unnatractive? Could you maybe get teeth fixed or use skin care products??
Best of luck to ya!
2006-09-22 14:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say wrong, but I do think that you need to start dating. Join social clubs. Participate as much as you can in community programs. Involve yourself in anything where you will meet new people that share a common interest as you. Expose yourself (no, not in that way) to as many people as you can. Ask friends to set you up on dates.
Do not fear rejection. Every guy has had his share of rejection if he as mustered up the courage to ask women out. It is just part of the deal. Don't take any form of rejection personally, for the reasons of rejection probably have nothing to do with you as a person. Perhaps try a professional dating service (not an on-line one, for they can be difficult for the guy).
Waiting to find the perfect woman for yourself is a colossal mistake. You CANNOT tell if someone is perfect for you until you have dated them for a while. The more you date, the greater the chance that you will find someone that you might want to spend the rest of your life with.
Be realistic in who you chase. Be yourself. RELAX. Don't try to pretend to be someone else. When you speak with a woman, speak to her as if she were a good friend of yours, not as someone you are trying to woo. Just relax.
2006-09-22 14:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are smarter than I was. Wait for the right one. You'll know. I was married twice & at 48 I met the man I should have been with for the last 20-25 years. You're young......have fun but try not to break any hearts.
2006-09-22 14:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like taking a test first you do the easy ones, then move on to the more difficult questions.
Find yourself a fat promiscuous girl and make sure to double wrap your salami. Then you can keep moving up till you find yourself a nice girl.
2006-09-22 14:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe you are just very picky when it comes to females. Which, isn't a bad thing. It is actually good that you are making some right decisions regarding that situation! You will find "her" when the time is right for you.
2006-09-22 14:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by bradnmich2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Odd. 27 and no girlfriend ever.Do you lack sex appeal? Try to change your apperance, be sexy, try to attract the opposite sex. Simple changes can go a long way,
2006-09-22 14:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Regio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the look of your picture, you may want to tone down your smile a bit and get a tan.
2006-09-22 14:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Joey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to change a couple of things about yourself! Like for instance do you have feminine tendencies? and if you do try to act more like a man!
2006-09-22 14:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Althea D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋