2006-09-22 07:11:00 · 7 answers · asked by Amber R 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only you can be the judge of that! But if you really care about him then his age should have nothing to do with yall's feelings for each other. Just keep in mind though that you both may be on different pages since you just graduated but if it's meant to be and if you want it to work...trust me, it will. I've been with my husband since junior high, he was in high school and he graduated before me. Everyone said we wouldn't last because we were so young when we fell in love but it's been 8 years and I'm still more in love with him than before! Good Luck! (sorry for the "yall", I'm from Texas!)
2006-09-22 07:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the question. Then you already know that you are wasting your time.
You: 18+; going to college; have few restrictions on what you can do, where you go, who you can see, how late you stay out; most likely have a job; living on own, at school or with roommates
Him: between 16-17; goes to school everyday; lives at home
there is a pretty big difference here. and you already know it - or else you wouldn't have asked the question.
Listen to that inner you and tell him its time you (and he) moved on.
2006-09-22 14:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you to staying with him are slim to none. He is probably too young for it to last. Most young guys are immature and don't really know what they want. Although it could work, especially if you still live in the same town, if he decides to go to college somewhere else, it would really put a strain on things. So I would say, cut your ties, you can still be friends and see what else is out there.
2006-09-22 14:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long ago you graduated high school. If you are 18 or less, go for it. I was four years older than my husband when we married.
However we are now divorced, why? Men mature at a much slower pace than we do. Dating men our own age is hard enough.
Also when you're that young honey I suggest you both just have fun. Young men definitely want to experience more than one woman, unless he is faithful to his religion.
Fragile, handle with care!!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 14:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you go to college it will take you about 5 minutes to realize that you are wasting your time and need to embrace the fact that you are now swimming in a bigger and better pool of fish.
2006-09-22 14:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by Trixie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dats not enough info to try to help u out. but wat i think is botherin u is da age difernece. ur not in skool nomore ur grown n hes not hes still in skool... but if ur still with him now den dat means u have mad feelings for this kid. ur friends n family might make fun cuz of da age but if u like himdont let others put u down for lovin who u love. age aint nothin but a number hunny wen it comes down to true love. just sit n think bout all da pro's n con's and u'll find ur answer. just look deep in ur heart all da answer u need will be right der.
2006-09-22 14:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by mperez637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u, and how old is he? for how long have u been together? it depends... it just might be true love, but i say move to somebody ur age
2006-09-22 14:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋