sex is good I just don't get turned on.
2006-09-22 07:09:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all no there is nothing wrong with you, second of all I suggest start masturbating on your own, and try to figure what you like and what you do yourself to turn yourself on, I'm confident that everyones own sex is the best sex, if there is one thing my relationship has taught me is that you have to tell your partner what you like, so by exploring your own self you should be able to do so. I hope this helps.
2006-09-22 07:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by salem 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm the same way. I'm 28, married and on birth control - have been since I was 20 and I think that's the reason. Am on a better brand now and hopefully that given another couple months I will start to get sex drive back. Hang in there!!
2006-09-22 14:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you take the pill that may be the problem. They say that if you make yourself have sex it helps you get turned on. I hope that helped if it didn't maybe your just bored of doing in the same place or the same way? just a thought
2006-09-22 14:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by hopeincubus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you are 25 women?? You may have a multiple personality thing going on. ! woman with 24 other personalities is going to present some problems.
2006-09-22 17:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex can't be good if you are not turned on. Try doing different things that you normally would not do. Always remember to practice safe sex.
2006-09-22 14:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be because you need something more exciting then what you are being given...not long after I got married I stopped getting turned on...and that worried me..but we started looking into ways to get me more turned on...we got books and movies and just tried all kinds of new things and it helped a lot ..you are probably just bored...do you just go straight into the sex? if so..you need to play around first and see if that don't help
2006-09-22 14:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by mouseymom24 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are not emotionally connected with your partner. If the emotional side is taken care of, you will get turned on just thinking about him or hearing his voice... Maybe wrong guy?
2006-09-22 14:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
25 women? Not even I could turn on 25 women at once.
2006-09-22 14:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dialup, Avatar, Jones!™ 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
most men just don't know how to turn women on these days. they take all their cues from pornos and it just cheapens the whole experience causing us to become more turned off than on.
drink alcohol, that usually helps.
2006-09-22 14:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal. You are transforming from a girl to a woman. You are realizing that it's more to life tahn sex. It take men til they are 35 until they discover this.
2006-09-22 14:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋