i have known patrick for about 13 years now... and im 16 now... so i've known him for a LONG time... but recently i found out that he is into bondage... and im COMPLETELY accecpting of his personal... opinions... but one night i was helping him clean up his room and i found a package of diapers under his bed... and i KNOW he dosen't have a "problem" when comsulted him on the issue he said he was into "babying" which i later found out ment... dressing up like a baby and getting spanked and crap like that... anyway... he's really starting to creep me out...... what do i tell him?
2006-09-22 07:06:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think first of all, knowing what you know about him, does that change how you feel about him? That's the important question that only you can answer.
However, since you're asking for opinions, here's mine. You can tell him that you would rather not hear about this aspect of his life, but otherwise things are OK. Essentially, he has a few fetishes, some of which you can handle and some that you cannot, but that does not change the kind of person that you've known for a long time.
Friendships, especially long-lasting ones, are rare things. Unless he is pushing stuff onto you, such as making you a confidant, or even a participant, he's going to be pretty much the same as he has been. Don't let a secret of his be a wedge in your relationship.
2006-09-22 10:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was your Friend before you found this out and now because he likes different thinks than you don't mean he is a different person he is still the same person just likes weirder stuff than you also just let him know your opinion and that it bothers you to her about it
2006-09-22 07:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just because u've known him for a long time doesnt mean u have to stick wit him, u dotn want that rubbin off on u, and if thats what hes into koo as long as its not illegal maybe u should just bak off him a little cuz thats creepy, but otherwise, ur could still be friends wit him.
2006-09-22 07:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by babiluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your best mate: Dress him up, put him in a pram and take him around the local park, then home, bottle feed him, burp him and then change his nappy.
2006-09-22 07:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have a problem some nights and was too embarassed to say anything.
2006-09-22 07:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, You are beginning to creep me out.
2006-09-22 07:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by blue_eyed_soul_woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing!! that is his personal sex thing not yours he still your good friend he is just freaky!!! just think of all the good stories he will share with you :)
2006-09-22 07:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew, sick!
just dont include yourself in that part of your life!
2006-09-22 07:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Surf n' Snow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goodbye?
2006-09-22 07:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by crazimommi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS.
2006-09-22 07:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋