i have lived with 2 roomates since April. One is my best friend since 8th grade "K" (who i have lived with since last november) the other is a really good friend of mine "A", but she is closer to "k" than to me. well all was well in the begining, but it always seems like there tag team aganist me. example: neither of them have b.fs and i do and they get so upset when he stays the night. also, since i used to work at wal-mart they would always call me and ask to bring them things, (& i pay for it and never ask for the money back) well everytime i ask them to do something for me, or to pick up something for the house (T.P, milk, bread etc) they throw a B* fit. i dont know what to do, if its something that we can talk about or should i just move out. it seems like everytime we get into an argument, they are both aganist me. 2 on 1 is far from fair.
grrr... roomates.. i love them tho, but i feel as tho i am being treated unfair.
2006-09-22 07:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by gracin_angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would talk to them about it. Tell them that you would do everything you can to get them what they need but when it comes to your own needs, they get all annoyed about it. Tell both of the girls how you really feel and I hope that they do listen. If they were really your friends, they wouldn't complain about anything that is going on in their lives. Find out what is really going on with the both of them, but talk to them on an individual basis. The way that both of these girls are treating is IS unfair and you of all people don't deserve that. If all doesn't go well, move out. I wish you the best of luck and I hope my advice does help you.
2006-09-22 07:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop picking things up for them and buy your own food. Tell them to do the same. If that doesn't solve things then consider moving out.
2006-09-22 07:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by worldhq101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
provide them a flavor of their very own drugs. you will desire to turn on the lights once you awaken and make noise...do not bypass overboard, purely the traditional noise you will make interior the process preparing. Then whilst they get annoyed tell them it is the way you experience whilst they do it to you. in the event that they don't replace you would be at an advantage switching rooms.
2016-12-18 15:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id move out ,tell them that your good friends and allways will be but things are odviously not workin with all three of you living together dont be upset when u say it , they might say dont move out and might be a little more respectful but if they dont its alll good anyway,sounds like jeolousy on there part.laterz
2006-09-22 07:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
roommates suck, its probably best for your friendships if you didn't all live together, but you shoudl try to talk to them about it. Its part of being an adult and best way to handle it. Think though what to say and try not to sound too attacking to put thme on the defensive.
2006-09-22 07:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try talkin to friend "K" and see if you could organise something.... or GET THEM BOYFRIENDS!!
lol
if none work then do move out
2006-09-22 07:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by srsuper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out, it won't ever get better, then maybe you can still remain freinds. if it keeps going on, you may not.
2006-09-22 07:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is unfair.....tell them to stfu or get new roomies..u can always still b friends........but now u wont have to deal with that bullsh*t
2006-09-22 07:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Shnitzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move
2006-09-22 07:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE
2006-09-22 07:04:48 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋