I have just posted a question about suicide will you talk to me?

Question

I origianally asked if "I am about to commit suicide, should I do it?" I have had a warming response, thank you. I need to talk about the way that I feel right now. Will you talk to me, please. You can send a Yahoo IM I will respond.

My love of my life lives in Tunisia. On 2nd September I tried to jump form a 50 foot high ledge and was only stopped by security guards, see my previous questions. I need someone right now, please.

Answer 1

I have been feeling sucidal alot
so i know how u feel, feel free to email me

Answer 2

I dont think you are going to get what you need through this forum. Why dont you email the Samaritans at [e-mail] or call them on 08457 90 90 90. There is always someone there and you would be able to talk properly. Sounds like your overwhelmed by sadness right now and these feelings will pass in time. Might be wrong but I think at least a part of you doesn't want to die or you wouldn't need to ask the question. By the way, it is possible to find love again and it will be easier when you stop viewing this person in Tunisia as "the love of my life". It is doubtful this person really is that or you wouldn't be experiencing so much pain. Love doesn't drive you to suicide.

Answer 3

I don't know if this is a serious question or not and I haven't read any of your other questions. I just saw the word suicide and thought I should say something. If you are playing around then I will have wasted my time sharing something very personal with you. But if you are serious maybe what I have to say will reach you. Suicide is not the way out of any situation. There is nothing that you can't get through.You may think it will take away all the pain. But it only causes more pain. It leaves people that you love with so many unanswered questions. They are the ones that are suffering when you decide to take your life. The people that you love miss out on your life. They loose someone that they love very much. You can't even imagine what it does to your family! My babies father chose to take his own life 12 years ago and it still haunts me still. i am sorry but there is nothing worth killing yourself over. I watched my babies dad shoot himself in the head and believe me I wanted to die at that moment. I understand what pain is and have felt it many times. I too though about it and thought it was the easy way out. But I couldn't I had a daughter that needed her mother so I had to be strong. Now my daughter is almost 13 years old and has never known her father and never will. I am so glad that I didn't do something that can never be taken back! I am so glad that I chose to survive instead of giving up. Suicide is very selfish and it solves no problems. I pray that you will not do something that will hurt your family way more than it hurts you. My prayers are with you. God loves you and will take away the pain that you feel.

Answer 4

I didn't see your 1st question but im amber nice to meet u well ive been there also i have felt suicidal lately also so i know what youre going through im very glad your were stopped by guards when you tryed to jump before u seem to be a great person & just think of all the people that you would be hurting if u did something liek that i really think that u need to get some counseling for the mental help that u need ok i did & im feeling alot better about my self also because i have a 7yr old child that i know defiantely loves me no matter what i do sometimes that isnt write so please think again before you try to end your life ok

Answer 5

Can't you move to Tunisia? My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year already, but he's coming to where I am once he is capable of doing so.

However, if this is impossible for you to do, remember this: suicide is never the answer to any problem. life is beautiful. sometimes you don't see it as beautiful but if you just take a moment and look at the good things in your life right now, you'll see that life isn't all that bad. There are so many people whose lives are in a much more horrible state: poverty, illnesses, etc. Hm... imagine this: In many 3rd world countries, people are starving and suffering. Those people are struggling just to stay alive and keep on going in this world. While there you are in a much better state than they are, thinking of wasting your life away just like that. life is a gift. enough with your thoughts of suicide. everything happens for a reason. you may not see it now, but in time you will come to realize your deeper purpose in life.

i hope this helps.

Answer 6

I am a survivor of a parent that committed suicide when I was 12 years old. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Stop. Feelings aren't facts and they change.. Focus on being kind to yourself even if its just for five minutes. Get around friends and family or who ever you trust. Counseling is always an option. Please get some help in person. Suicide is a very selfish act and hurts so many other people...Did you ever watch Its a wonderful Life with Jimmy Stewart and Clarence the angel.? You may email me if you like. I have been there

Answer 7

I believe that everyone human has at one point or other felt that death is the ultimate answer to any/all problems. However always remember one thing, as long as you are alive, you have a choice to make things better by giving yourself a chance. When you commit suicide you made the choice of not giving yourself a chance. That is sad because then you have left behind people that only want to know why you felt things were so hopeless.

There is someone in this world that is the perfect person for you, not because you think so, or because you want to make it so, but because it is so... the problem is if you die before you meet them, that would be a tragedy, not the suicide.

Answer 8

Why are you being so hard on yourself? Nothing can be that bad to end your life. Yea life is tough and rough but there is always a brighter day someday. We just have to work through it and make the best of it. That is what makes us ..us. We learn by what happens in our life.One other thing to say to you. If you do it you will be hurting a lot more people then you think you will be. I hope you feel better about yourself. Good luck and God BLESS!

Answer 9

First of allif you were truly determined to kill yourself you would have just done it an d not come on yahoo answers to get attention. What your doing is called a "dry for help"...so get some already! And I am not rferring to the kinda help your gonna get here on yahoo, you need a therapist.
Second, WHY do you want to die???? Because the person you love lives far away?? If this is the reason then thats pretty sad, at least you have someone to love.................

Answer 10

Look I dont know you or your problams but God wont give you anything you cant handle. Now I wont you to think how misrable you feel right now If you kill your self what will that do. Let me tell you it will leave many boys and girls in the same situation. So use your anger and sadness to help save someone ellse and I know its hard to believe but if you kill yourself you ruin your chance to be happy some day. P.S. I am going to pray for you I hope you will think about this and do the right thing.

Answer 11

Talking to someone on here is good but you really need to talk to a professional..There's nothing wrong with that..NO ONE deserves to feel the way you are feeling..And there are places out there that will give you so much support and the attention you need..Please go get professional help before it's to late ..You are worth living..there are people out there that does care even people on this site but we can't give the the support you really really need..seek professional help now don't wait another minute..Good Luck to you and you'll be in my prayers..