2006-09-22 06:41:09 · 12 answers · asked by Sabrina W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sometimes it is how people deal with pain. Just let them know that they are hurting your feelings and that you can not control what your parents do. and if they still hate you, then that is THERE loss.
2006-09-22 06:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a pretty strong word. If you moved out of town, away from them, there is a sense that you rejected them but of course you really didn't. Because they feel rejected, they will reject back to ease the pain. They also know that you aren't going to be part of their life as often as you were. Let's face it, it is hard sometimes to say goodbye but you are going to have to ease away from your old friends and make new ones where you have moved to. Remember, they don't really hate you.
2006-09-22 13:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that your friends don't hate you; they miss you. They're hurting right now because you moved and you're not around anymore. You can't control your parent's actions and they should know that. Talk to your friends and tell them how you really feel. Tell them that they hurt your feelings and that you miss them too. Visit during vacations and stay in touch- phone calls, text messaging, emails, whatever. If they continue to give you the silent treatment, then they are NOT your friends. Their loss, not yours.
2006-09-22 13:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It’s not that they hate you, they just fill neglected or like you left them behind. You know you all made a promise to each other when ya’ll were in elementary school that you will always be friends and be around each other… They fill that you broke that promise. They may also be filling that you will forget them as time pass and you make new friends.
2006-09-22 14:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by Nae-Nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with ur frnds by distant-contact. They'll again start 2 love u. Good luck !!!
2006-09-22 14:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by Innocence Redefined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you moved and left them behind
2006-09-22 13:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like they really weren't your friends, i still communicate with friends out of state even if its my email once in awhile..
2006-09-22 13:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by snoogans 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that they hate you its that they miss you
2006-09-22 13:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moved to where?
2006-09-22 13:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, they hated you before, too...they just didn't say anything.
2006-09-22 13:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋