I have a little thing for crossdressing, when I'm home alone for a few hours I"ll play dress up, I been happily married for 17 years I would love to tell my wife that i've have a fanasty of being a woman for a day, & the both of us have sex with a man, ( I dont think I'm gay- I never been with a guy,I just would like to know the feeling of giving a guy h--d ) I I dont want to do anything to f__k up my married , so I'm not for sure about telling her
2006-09-22 06:31:31 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are probably bisexual. While there is nothing wrong with this, telling your wife may be the end of your marriage. It really depends on how open your wife is to the bi-gay world, but what you are asking is for her to share you with a man. I would not share my husband with anyone and if he asked me to I would leave in a heartbeat. I am not one to take my vows lightly and I do not expect of him any less than I expect of myself. He will live up to his vows or he will negate them. This is a form of breaking a contract. When a contract is broken the injured party has every legal right to sever the relationship. Take great care in how you proceed telling your wife the truth about your secret. It is not fair to her. You are selfishly thinking of your needs and only your needs. That is wrong. If you love your wife you will continue to treat her and your marriage with honor. I am sorry you are needing to do this is secrecy, but this secret is best kept. The fallout will hurt so many, is it worth it? Just to come out of the closet as bisexual? Remember, you made vows with this woman and just because years have now gone by does not release you. Honor your wife and your marriage and continue to meet your needs privitely. Without committing adultry.
2006-09-22 06:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat as you. I "accidently" bought my wife a pair of panties several sizes too large. She didn't throw them away. So I kept a pair handy. One night when making love I took out the large pair and put them on her and then I climbed in. We both enjoyed the closeness and I especially enjoyed the sensation.
Please above all go very slow with your wife about cross dressing - let it come out in little baby bites.
Wendy (joe)
2006-09-22 13:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by WendyJo K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha
2006-09-22 13:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋