Ok, so we have a general Fax Coversheet at our office (we run a children's movie DVD distribution facility) and it is saved on our network Microsoft word program. Anyway, whenever you need a faxcover sheet you just acces it through the network and edit it to apply to whomever you're sending it to. Anyway, yesterday my friend sent a fax to his girlfriend in New Jeresey and inthe fax cover sheet comments section he jokingly wrote: I MISS BANGING YOU IN THE ***.
The next day, he had to send something to our female boss and used a fax cover sheet but forgot to erase that nasty comment. Now she's pissed...and he doesnt know what to do. Any advice?
2006-09-22 06:17:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
Yeah, that happened to my sisters boyfreind, he hates his boss and wanted to txt my sister that his boss is an as*hole but accidentally txtd his boss and he got really pissed at him but it blew over.
Tell whomever to tell the boss that the whole thing was not meant to be. Focus on her good qualities rather than what is going in her as* Everything blows over, its just a matter of time. If this person is in a union, she cannot fire you over that. Tell your freind to talk to her, saying it wasn't meant to be sent to her ofcourse theres always the question what was he doing using the fax for his gf anyways. Be honest...DO NOT LIE!. cuz u will get caught in a lie. Its a lil funny, once you explain it they can certainely joke about it. Its an honest mistake.
2006-09-22 06:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! He screwed up bad!!!
WOW! Im laughing too hard at that one.
Well 1. your friend should have learned why you dont do that sort of thing at work.
I would recomend he confront his boss. Simply ask to talk to her and tell her what had happend. He sent that to his girlfriend.
That he knows he was wrong and should not have been screwing around. But that he doesnt want her to be mad about it and cause drama at the office so he wanted to explain and APOLOGIZE.
At this point she will either rant and rave about it for a few and then let him know he's got one more chance, not to screw up again or he is out. OR
She will rant and rave then fire him for being unappropriate at work.
Either way he will get some type of lashing and he just needs to buck up and take his licks.
But DO as I recomend and go in and admit up to being wrong and opologize, you'll be how far that will get you.
GOOD Luck to him, and tell him thats pretty funny. (Well some day he'll look back and laugh).
2006-09-22 06:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up. Go to the Boss.
State: I have done something aggregious that I feel I must have written disciplinary action taken and put in my file.
1) I inappropriately used company time and resources for personal use
2) The nature of the offense, even though accidental, was of an offensive nature not only to you, but also to anyone who may have witness said fax.
3) I know the nature of my offense is grounds for emmediately dismissal, but I assure you that such behavior will never be exibited again.
2006-09-22 06:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by sselfcoug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 06:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by bradberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, that is bad. That could come of as sexual harassment. He needs to apologize AND hire a lawyer just to be on the safe side. I would also recommend him find another job.
2006-09-22 06:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinluver22000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fess up to it and be honest. He'll have to ride out the storm for a while but it will calm down eventually.
Hopefully she will understand.
2006-09-22 06:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Peapod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so bad of your friend to be making those kinds of comments to anyone even if it was meant for his girlfriend. It is demeaning so he is well deserving of what he gets. Maybe fired and his girlfriend should fire him too because obviously he thinks nothing of her.
2006-09-22 06:22:02 · answer #7 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to apologize and tell her that he realizes the mistake. Beg for forgiveness...and update the resume.
2006-09-22 06:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by voandginger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your minutes are numbered. Learn from your mistakes. Good luck in finding new employment.
2006-09-22 06:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by tobeyp2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking for another job.
2006-09-22 06:20:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋