so me and my boyfriend are on this break but yet were still together..its complicated. we planned to go on a trip with some friends today but he is going without me now. i'm the one who planned the trip and i cant even go. is this fair?
shouldnt i worry that he could possibly get drunk and mess around?
he doesnt want me to go because he think something will come up and we will start fighting and ruin the trip which wouldnt happen because im much smarter then that.
2006-09-22 05:50:17 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he told me "i dont know why you're so upset were not broken up and i still love you, i just need a break from fighting"
we still say i love you and we still talk normally and we still see each other to talk over things but were not fully broken up. he told me he wasnt looking for girls he just wants time alone because he is tired of all the fighting
2006-09-22 07:11:03 · update #1
Very unfair you should go and he should not be able to go .If you cant go why should he and if he loves you as he says then i dont see why you both cant go and just have fun together and leave problems behind..To me if he still does not want you to go i would say something is up. A good break for anyone is to take a vacation together and away from home if that is not good enough for him then find some friends of your own and go have fun elsewhere there is no sense of you staying behind beside you was doing a good thing of planning something together must not be what he wanted...
2006-09-22 08:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tim H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were "univited on the trip". chances are he will be hooking up with someone else during the trip. should you worry about it? no. why? because you two are broken up. You have no claim on what he does and he has no claim on what you do. Thats what broken up means.
the "relationship" is over. now.. he may still want to sleep with you and if that is agreeable with you then thats one thing. But don't think that just because he does means that he wants to get back together unless he says that.
Its time to walk away and start having fun with other guys.
2006-09-22 06:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you helped plan the trip there is no reason why you are not going. If you are on a break from this guy and he is viewing it as an opportunity then you should too. Go on your trip and live it up.
2006-09-22 05:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its not fair... what you need to tell him.. is hey i planned the trip.. we were going with or without you. so deal with me. you should be worried. guys will always mess around even if there isnt drinkin involved.
2006-09-22 05:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by iluvdiamonds18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will have to let this trip go ...dont worry about your boyfriend...if he doesn't want you around then find someone who does...and your next trip...don't tell him about it ....
2006-09-22 05:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not. i would go any way Rather he liked it or not. chances are he is fooling around. i would show him that i can have fun with out him. kick him to the curb girl friend he ain't worth it.good luck!
2006-09-22 05:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why worry - get a life
2006-09-22 05:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋