what do u do if u like a girl a lot but she thinks tht ur just a close friend?

Answer 1

I'll still probably exert as much effort to try and win her.. but if I feel all has been done and she doesn't see me anymore than platonic, then i'd probably just keep the friendship as that's the closest I can still be.
I'd definitely try to move on, find someone who'd see me more than a friend and wish that she finds hers too. =)

Answer 2

If u like her enough to risk ur friendship, u should tell her u like her. If u dont she'll probably get a boy friend a leave u out of the picture. If u do tell her she may not like u back and thats where the risk is. So u have to decide between friendship or love.

Answer 3

Cool Nerd,
Having a friend is a good thing, but having a close friend is awesome. I don't know if you ment it that way, but the relationship with a close friend is very special thing. You have to weigh your choices here are you willing to lose a close friend over your feelings. If so then you have to tell her how you feel and then accept the results (good or bad).
TDCWH

Answer 4

then you have to let her know by showing her indirectly.give her some signs and tell her exactly how you feel about her.But only tell her when she is in a good mood.you might be shocked that she even feels the same way about you.
if she doesnt like you the same way,then take things the way they seem and remain her close friend.But i assure you that she will start to check you out in one way or the other which you may not realise on time.
anyway,if you are both meant to be,you will both be together,its called faith.good luck

Answer 5

Disclose ur feelings 2 her. If she accepts u, then she's really ur close frnd, otherwise she's not so close 2 u. May be, she also loves u ... but can't tell u. Let urself do the 1st. move. Best of luck !!!

Answer 6

find a girlfreind .........that usually changes there tune a bit .........she still might no sleep with you though . I find that when they say oh were just good friends it means they are scared to change the way the friednship is going , they want more but a scared it will change into something that is seirous and not ""fun"" .........its a common thing ,start showing interest in other ladies but if she is a good friend then by all means keep her as a friend ...........

Answer 7

Well you could do 2 things.
1) talk to her about how you feel about her, you never know she might feel the same way about you.

2) leave it alone and move to anouther girl that u have feelings for, never risk your relationship with a friend if you are unsure of what to do.

You should think about what the possitive and negitve effects of each way of hadeling this and go for it. Trust me it has happened to me before. And i told the guy i liked him and we started dating. :)

Answer 8

take it in stride don't pressure her she may change her mind!!! If you hound her she might get creeped out and then think that ur a freek! or your trying to get her and she already has a man and would like you to be around to have someone lean on that's alwayz a good thing. i'd say stick around you'll never know and you might regret it good luck!

Answer 9

If you are close friends, then it is easy....ask her to a movie, then ask if she wants to go as a friend or on a date...bingo, you will have your answer as to how she really feels about you...if she says..date..then during the movie is the best time to tell her how you feel about her....if she says...friend, then unfortunately you will have to accept that you are just that, friends...but dont give up, girls have been known to change their minds, many times...keep trying for that movie date..ok??...good luck..

Answer 10

you can tell her how you feel, and see what happens, but if you two start to date and it doesn't work out you can plan on losing her as a friend all together. Girls seem to not want to be friends after a relationship