How can i become friend with a girl that i dont know?
As the school started i met many new people.I am 16 fat (weight 95k) (height 1,78m) and she is 17 beautiful girl from Ausralia.Every time i try to aproach her the last second I dismay, turn back and leave.What i could do?she so beautiful.She has brownblode hair,perfect body beautiful face and a the most sexy walk i have ever seen.She is perfect.When i see her I feel that my hard is going to blow.I become red and i believe that she suspect something.How she couldnt when i staring on she.Please i need some advices.I dont know what to do.Help me please I thing that if i ask her to speak with me she will make fool of me and loose her for ever.GOS help me!
2006-09-22 04:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Tzatzikomouris 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
i'm not sure if you're fat, or you're insecure and consider yourself fat. have confidence in yourself. just go up to her when you see her. if you're really nervous, talk to her when she's by herself that way you don't feel pressured around her friends or other people. if she's as nice as she is beautiful, she'll be nice to you and talk to you. if she laughs just because you tried to talk to her, then she's not even worth your time, because she's stuck up and mean.
no matter how you look, if you're confident about yourself, that confidence will show through and even overshadow your looks. if you're funny, be funny. girls like to laugh. if you're smart, try to help her with her problem subjects. if you're good with art, music, or poetry, show her what you can do. if you play sports, invite her to watch you play. you don't have to start a relationship right away. be old-fashioned. court her, ask her out on dates but don't necessarily start anything physical. if she likes you, you'll get a vibe from her and things will just flow.
just take it easy.
2006-09-22 05:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by Chris E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe precisely a similar way relating to the guy i like, it extremely is the worst component ever! and whilst he does talk to me, i'm getting so worried and don't be attentive to what to declare. i will purely provide you all the advice it is been given to me; you have purely have been given to decide for it, recover from your anxiousness and start up up some chat. Lifes too short, and if no longer something comes out of it, c'est l. a. vie.
2016-10-17 11:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to work up to this one. You gotta be comfortable around all girls first - then this fantasy girl just becomes another person to talk to. Try casual comments first - a compliment in passing like "nice outfit" - just no mention of body parts from the neck down. Try it on a mortal first - see what happens.
2006-09-22 05:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind yourself that everyone has their upsides and their downsides. One of her upsides is her beauty, and because you can easily see that you feel intimidated. But don't worry--I'm sure that you have some great traits that she would find interesting and appealing about you. Remember that you have something to offer even if it's not immediately apparent when meeting you and you should feel calmer. Good luck.
2006-09-22 05:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by dp 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Umm. just don't be shy....become her friend. then ask if you 2 want to hang out...then you pick it up from there...
I don't know how to make you unshy...just ask for her msn.
or yahoo messenger.
Or, you can loose some weightby just stop eating...and don't eat more! Just remember it is for her.
Ok? Just muster up all the courage you have, buddy and go for it...e-mail me if you have any other problems
2006-09-22 05:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Japan_is_home 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it..you have nothing to lose..realize your a great guy and someone would be lucky to have ya...worst thing that can happen is you get turned down..life goes on and there will be many more girls...just start with small talk and ask her if she would like to hang out some time..if she says yes, get her number..if no, say ok, well thanks anyways...go for the gold, no reason to settle for anything les.s.good luck
2006-09-22 05:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Michael D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gain confidence and talk to her. Maximum is that she would reject you, so what? At least, you have tried rather than speculating as to whether she likes you or not-
2006-09-22 05:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over your fear of talking. Confidence is what makes certain people seem cool, not looks. Also, please reword the sentence, "I feel my hard is going to blow." I'm hoping that was a typo.
2006-09-22 05:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by mctfelton 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when its cold like go up to her and say hey you look cold need my hoody. or like bump into her and help her pick up books but you have to aventully talk to her start by saying hi
2006-09-22 05:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋