how do you handle living with your aunt and uncle and a house full of other people and your uncle by marriage always snapping out on you about cleaning up other peoples stuff that you dont even mess up , mind that you pay rent there and buy supplies for the house and you never bring company over and your hardly ever there because you work and go to school , but getting your own place is kind of hard for your pockets right now thats why your there?
2006-09-22 04:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Miskateyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately if moving is not a financial option at this time you are going to have to turn a blind eye to him and put up with his crap. After all it is his home. I just would not take it personally because it sounds like he is just a crabby person by nature. I would stay away from the house as much as possible and start saving all of my pennies to get the heck out! Good luck!
2006-09-22 04:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are home, try your best to do a bit of chores, and then stay in your room and study, or relax, To keep peace, when asked to do something, just do it. Try and have a good frame of mind, like i will do what I have to do, and smile to yourself. This way it is like you are playing with your mind a bit. and it will help to keep your sanity. Don't have a whole lot too say, to any of them. Be respectful!! I hope the everything will work out for you!
2006-09-22 05:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're in a very bad situation,and you need to hold your head.Try talking to them, if that dont work/set a goal and start saving money ,and stick to it and some day you will be able to get your on place ,mabey with a roommate.Don't give up!!!
2006-09-22 05:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by tooswool239 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as in case you're taking many stuff with no attention, which you prefer to have your person way lots of the time. considering you reside with kin, who're letting you reside with them (they do no longer could desire to enable you reside by the way, so as that they could desire to be kind human beings) then you definately could desire to abide by their regulations. they are in all probability no longer used to young human beings, who ask for pocket funds, prefer to have events, request funds for the cinema, prefer to be on line continuously. you're in fact fortunate to have a place to stay, a roof over your head. i replaced into on my own at fourteen, working interior the city, procuring an house and residing on little or no funds. no person regarded after me or presented something, once I moved there I had a suitcase with some clothing and not something. So, you're doing incredibly properly in assessment. you have a house to stay in, you have foodstuff and human beings who shield you. possibly, something you will could desire to earn by helping your Uncle R and Auntie. help with foodstuff, determining on up, washing up and get to be attentive to them, and enable them to get to be attentive to you. it is going to take a while to do all that, in all probability better than a week. Ask in the journey that your Father is sending them or your Grandparents funds on your care and spot if some pocket funds could be gotten from that. or you will could desire to earn it your self, or write or call your Father. i'm actual shocked he did no longer make such provisions for you. communicate on your kin, no depend how frightening it may look.
2016-10-17 11:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's better u discuss that with ur parents and shift somewhere else
2006-09-22 04:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋