Im 14... home sick... umm... ive made out before, 4 different people. Theres this girl i no, shes a year younger, and shes never made out before. I got with her best friend, and i really wanna get with the 13 year old. Im friendly with her, but i need help. Shes wants to do it but i dont think shes ready because she seems like the person whod chicken out. I dont wanna force her if she doesnt wanna, but i dont really no how bad she wants it. SHould i just make a move. What should i do?
2006-09-22 04:51:02 · 17 answers · asked by person 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
At 14 you need to slow down! You have a lifetime of making out in your future.
2006-09-22 04:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are not ready, don't worry about it. The time will come. Just enjoy making out until you are ready to go all the way. There is nothing wrong with waiting. If she has never made out before then chances are she is going to be scared her first time. Just assure her that you will be very gentle and will not hurt her. If after you feel comfortable making out for a while, then see if you are both ready to go all the way. I would wait until you are 18 though because it might end up being a big mistake. Atleast when you are 18 you are better able to judge who you really care about. You need to sleep with someone you really care about not someone who is just attractive or easy.
2006-09-22 05:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by rkb12584 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your too young and I think the girls are too young - sex is way overrated. Just enjoy friendship and companionship for now - dont be in such a rush to come into this grown up world - once your here there's no turning back and being a "kid" is the best part of life.
2006-09-22 04:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14yrs and having sex , Damm when i was ur age i didn't have that in mind cause i know guys only was intresting in ur body. time changes. Anyway u guys can be friends but forget about the sex part having an education is better than that for now plus having sex is enjoyable but there is a lot of bad consequences behind it for instance STD, HIV and teenage pregnancy. think about it.
2006-09-22 04:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not just make a move. talk to her, show her that you care. her first kiss is a biggie! she probably wants it to be with someone special. so, ask her if she is ready. dont just move in. if she hesitates then it is probably best to not kiss her. let her know that you like her, and let her decide when to make the move. on the other hand, if you just want to get a kiss out of her and your not interested in a relationship, then BACK OFF!
2006-09-22 05:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by lina_lips_07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14??? how bout you go home, make some chocolate milk, watch rugrats and get a good night's sleep.
i am 16. just hearing young people talk like this makes me sick.
2006-09-22 04:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by young republican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait unill you're married. It's worth the wait.And you two are to young. Dont hurry.
2006-09-22 05:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am gonna report this message to child support and u to ur mama
2006-09-22 04:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be having sex at this age. you need to put your education first cause you can't even spell
2006-09-22 04:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait untill you're married.And you should be in school
2006-09-22 04:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋