Many cultures have different ways to define adulthood for males and females. You hit many of the ways right on the head. However, I believe adulthood is not merely physical, but emotionally, spiritually, menatlly and financially. Like the saying says: When I was a child I thought like a child but now as a woman I put away childish things. That is the tough part of the maturational process. People see the body maturing and developing and they expect adolescents to be adults. They are in a transitional stage to adulthood and have not yet reached it fully. Society then places demands on them based on appearnce and age etc. The teens often have not emotionally and mentally reached the maturational process as fast as their body has and they end up having a crisis. Adolescents are at times like adults and at times like children. They need time to work through the process to become stable and competant adults. We all go through this and we need to be patient and allow for the process. Each person matures at a different rate. Sometimes when girls look like women but aren't emotionally mature it can cause them great pain staking problems. I belive when the person can make reasonable decisions, be self sufficient and well adjusted they are considered a woman. Some older females still act like children, because they never really grew up.
2006-09-22 05:00:01
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answered by Shayna 6
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some girls may think they are grown when they first get their period but that is not always how it works, i was 11 when i got mine and i know that i was a hell of a long way from being a woman at that age. and as far as drivers license that also goes the same way some girls out there are more in-mature after they get their license than they were when they were 8 so in my opinion i think it is when she can work and pay her own bills and does not have to depend on her parents for everything that she has, such as a home, car. cloths. etc....
2006-09-22 04:59:23
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answered by Anonymous
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i think it varies from culture to culture. some cultures are clear cut of their definition of a woman. in some cultures once the girl starts her period, she's considered a woman and eligible to marry.
the way i see it, a girl becomes a woman, when she becomes independent, has a career, a place of her own, and being responsible for her actions. she's pretty much established her life. but that also goes for the men.
make a note though, that being a mother doesn't automatically mean you're being a woman. a 16-year old who has a baby doesn't necessarily become a woman just because she has a baby. her mentality is not of that grown woman. a 30-year old mother is not really a woman if she's doesn't take responsibility of her children.
2006-09-22 04:58:53
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answered by Chris E 3
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No, I think you become a woman much later. I think you are a woman when you are finally out on your own, completely having cut financial ties to your parents, earning your own money and having your own career. But most importantly, you are a woman when you begin thinking independently and making your own choices and taking responsibility for them. Being a woman also has to do with self-confidence and self-knowledge; knowing who you are and exactly what you want from life. Ideally, it probably happens around age 25 and keeps getting better from there.
2006-09-22 05:29:54
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answered by nido_tr3s 5
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There is a great deal of cross cultural difference in it. The cultures where child marriage is prevalent, she becomes woman when she starts sleeping with her husband say at about 14. In the sphere of education when she passes last school examination and enters into college, she is considered woman. In law as it defined by the Act.So there is great deal of subjectivity in determination.
2006-09-22 05:08:29
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answered by nomedicationman 3
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When she's able to live for others and not herself, and can make wise decisions and reap the benefits or consequences of those decisions gracefully. When she can accept advice and education thankfully, and learn to impliment whats needed into her life.
I'd say at motherhood, or some point after.
2006-09-22 04:52:32
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answered by amosunknown 7
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Physically when she gets her period cause from then on she is able to give life. However, emotionally it is really different. I think it is when you are able to take care of yourself. In that sense some females never become women.
2006-09-22 04:54:50
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answered by Jeni_Li 2
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When she gets her first period.
2006-09-22 04:52:05
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answered by Anonymous
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when a girll gets her period she starts becoming a woman bu then id say when she turns eighteen and stops growing and begins college
2006-09-22 05:08:00
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answered by dancing_fefie 2
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"while i grew to become right into a toddler, I used to communicate like a toddler, think of like a toddler, reason like a toddler; as quickly as I grew to grow to be a guy, I did away with infantile issues." i assume the comparable ingredient would desire to be mentioned for female.
2016-10-01 06:11:30
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answered by bradberry 3
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