well I been wit this chick for 8 months and i love her,but she's got this big problem with lieing.....cuz when she gets home from school i ask her all these questions....(don't get me wrong,i'm not controlleing but she's cheated on me before)...so yeah i ask her if she talked to certain dudes,cuz im a bit skeptical of who she talks to and such.but she lies about it,later on ill find out from her friends that she actually not only talked to certain dudes that she shouldnt be,but she like flirted wit them too...and yeah I know that we are still kids n ****,but this is different...so how can I get her to stop lieing?? and no im not gonna break up wit her...and if u need more info i can add more another question.
2006-09-22 04:49:47 · 20 answers · asked by roy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just hit her
2006-09-22 04:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
what is the point? Apparently you can't get her to stop. Why would you want to be with someone who is constantly betraying you? She knows you are not going to do anything about it that is why she treats you this way, you stay after she repeatedly lies and cheats, then why would she quit. Sounds like this is the way she is so get used to checking yourself for std's or get out
2006-09-22 11:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by brunette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you won't break up with her, which would be the best thing to do just stop asking her questions. If you don't ask questions she won't have to answer with a lie.
2006-09-22 11:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by greenshirt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh dude once a cheater always a cheater save your time and dumper
My friend has the same problem but he's married and she's cheated and continues to cheat to this day the guy knows. but loves her so he won't leave. pretty sad.
2006-09-22 11:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit her down, and say we need to have a heart to heart talk, I know and you know, that you lie to me, and most of all, to yourself, do you realize it, or are you just telling me what you think I want to hear. You must remember people who lie, have a problem, and it goes deeper. She has to realize it, and then she has to work at it, to try and work on herself, and start to tell the truth.
2006-09-22 11:57:27 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is a loser. In my opinion if you are too wimpy to deal with her lieing and cheating on you and drop her, I have NO sympathy for you. No offense intended!!
2006-09-22 11:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First you ask to many questions to her so you must not be secure with her so leave now before its to late .
2006-09-22 11:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by pirateron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well does she love you??? thats the questio u cant force any one to be with you!! if she dont love you back, what is the point of being together and if she lies to you she dont respect you or deserve you also think about if she lies to you now dont you think she will lie 40years later!!
well do what u think its best good luck and lotz of hugz!!!!!!
2006-09-22 11:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by *********** 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!! Drop her off at the bridge!
2006-09-22 11:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she probably thinks she need to lie to you and yes you do sound controlling she probably lies because she is fearful of what you may do or how you will react.
2006-09-22 11:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by mary c 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stick her with some sodium pentathol.
2006-09-22 11:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by saelskies 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋