LOVE MAKING LOVE WITH MY WIFE BUT CAN'T GET HER TO WANT IT MORE
2006-09-22 03:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happens... Many times its just cuz they have so much to do that they're too tired at the end of the day... try taking her on weekend getaways once in awhile... help out more at home... lose some weight... women tend to shy away the more weight you gain...
2006-09-22 03:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Andy FF1,2,CrTr,4,5,6,7,8,9,10 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take a look at what your wife's day is like. Work, the house, and kids can drain anyone. Observe where you can eliminate or help with some of her tasks. See if you can make free time for you and her in the evenings. An hour. Let her take a bath and get her mind off what has to be done. Don't become another task; you are her lover. Act like a lover, let her talk, unwind, share (that's foreplay for women). Reconnect and she will follow. Also, you will see a pattern of cycles. Note when she does want you. What kind of day was it? Try to incorporate that pattern more.
2006-09-22 10:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am a wife and mother of three. I also work full time. I go threw times when sex is the last thing on my mind. It is hard to keep up with running a household and a job. It is not because I don't love my hubby or that I don't want to be intimate I am just beat! Try to be patient with you're wife. Maybe you can help lift the load of tasks at home so she can relax and enjoy some r & r with you at bedtime? This seems to work for us. Good luck and just love and support you'r wife. It all works its' self out.
2006-09-22 10:39:27 · answer #3 · answered by Hollli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try setting up a extra special romantic evening for the two of you. Maybe things have just gotten ho hum in the bedroom department.
2006-09-22 10:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you making an effort to give her affection other than when you want sex? Perhaps you should consider giving her cuddles and making her feel wanted rather than just expecting sex all the time. Or maybe you are not considerate to her and what she wants.
2006-09-22 10:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt describe her day,, most woman who aer slaves in the home, cooking and cleaning and taking care of young kids,, certainly do not want to put out for someone who doesnt help out,
2006-09-22 10:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through the same thing with my husband. If you find a sollution, let me know.
2006-09-22 10:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club....
2006-09-22 10:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
2006-09-22 10:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋