Please help me come up with a gift idea that I can give my wife. Typically I am a bit extravagant, like for a wedding present I got her a new BMW convertible and my original gift that I got for her before we separated was tickets to see her favorite band in Aruba along with a week long spa treatment at the resort. We have been separated for two months but we are still friends and by no means do I want to have this gift hint at us getting back together because that I defiantly do not want. So what is appropriate for this situation?
2006-09-22 03:26:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give her a gold plated vibrator with the inscription u will always have this to remember me by
2006-09-22 03:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you are on the exstravagant side, and you don't want to hint anything about getting back together, I would say maybe a cruise for ONE or perhaps just a card and maybe a box of her favorite candy and a gift certificate to her favorite place, BUT when you sign the card, don't put LOVE, instead, write, " Your Friend, so and so" and maybe you can write in there also "i'm glad we're still friends" or something of that nature.
{With that being said, a new BMW? What's your phone # ;) (JK)}
2006-09-22 03:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by SB's cafe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get back together, and I'll bet neither does she, what is all this stuff about some extravagant gift? Not that I really believe you ever got her these things. And why ask strangers who don't know either of you? If you're friends, why not ask her? Or, if you're such good friends, why not give her whatever huge gift you want but explain that you don't want her to misunderstand.
Personally, I think this whole question sounds rather bogus.
2006-09-22 03:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't push the idea of "getting back together" on her in such a rude manner, as in buying her a gift. She already told you she didn't plan on getting back with you so I would just back off and let her have her space. If you truly want to buy her a gift anyhow, I'd buy something not so romantic for her. Get her a card. This should do be more than enough.
2016-03-27 02:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont want to get back together, i would say just a card. Your not together anymore so you dont need to buy her a nice gift. What would be funny is you buy her a card, you know one of those meant for money. She opens it up and it has divorce papers in it...lol
2006-09-22 03:34:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the "going away with friends" answer was the best. BUT does she EXPECT a huge present. My bf is just as generous but I wouldn't "expect" anything from him. Were you just trying to buy her with these past gifts?
2006-09-22 03:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by flick flack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are seperated i would do something very basic like a card or a gift certicate.. you say you are still friends so i think this would appropiate any thing else what give false hope.
2006-09-22 03:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her somewhere with her friends. then it will be the kind of extravagant gift you like to give, but there will be no chance for anything to happen.
2006-09-22 03:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a sincere simple greeting from the heart...that would mean a lot, more than any expensive things.
2006-09-22 03:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by spn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number to your lawyer.
2006-09-22 03:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋